im breaking up with my boyfriend of a year. i told him we'd have the rest of the semester... which we have like 2 weeks left, then we split... but more and more i just want to have it over with. partly cuz im strangely attracted to someone else, but also cuz he's driving me crazy. and its just him being himself. im just confusing myself more and more, and i havent been this way in a long time, i feel like im 16 with all these emotions and shit. i hate it. and its not like i want another relationship, just this other guy is FUN. he actually goes out and does stuff, concerts, pot, money, just im attracted to this vibe so i like hanging out with him. and my boyfriend is getting jealous and kinda is tyring to control us. i really dont blame him, but things are getting intense and crazy. i just really dont know what to do, sorry i really needed to vent out crap, but i welcome comments. love and light
so you set a date to break up on? why? doesn't that make things bittersweet, or at least annoyingly slow and drawn out? it just seems like if you want to be with someone, be with them; if not, break it off... but deciding to stay together for two more weeks? whats the point in that? well, if you're going to remain his girlfriend, you still need to respect him, even if it is with two weeks notice. sure, there's an experation date on the relationship -- so either do what you have to do and cut things off with your boyfriend, or be a good girlfriend for the next two weeks. and part of that is not knowingly making your boyfriend jealous and going against his feelings by hanging out with a guy you have a crush on, who is not your boyfriend. if you really like this other guy, then go for it... just have the decency to really end things with your man first.
I've never heard of getting a notice that you're going to break up with someone.That strikes me as very funny!It would be like getting a notice from a boss that he will be firing you in 2 weeks! lol ~peace & love
lol, i know.... we were just kinda trying to prepare... but now we are broken up, still is really hard even tho we tried to prepare for it, guess that doesnt work peace and love
it seems like you will be happier without him. people that are controlling just arent good... unless your out of control and need it a little, but it doesnt seem like thats the case with you
