My dwindling confidence...

Hey guys... I have a couple of problems that I need to get off my chest if you dont mind...

Hi. Im José and call this arrogant but I have been called a pretty boy all my life, and I met this girl in a club, and I was winding up to go say hi, and when I got the courage, she thought I was a girl? WTF? I have long black curly hair, which I do keep in good condition I suppose but ever since then I've lost my confidence a bit... I feel like less of a man for some reason... I feel horrible.

Also... I do consider myself ok looking I suppose... but some mornings I wake up, and look in the mirror and I hate myself... Other times I wake up and literally fall in love with myself... Whats happening? Does anyone have any tips on how to boost my confidence on those bad days?

Thanks alot Guys

 

facial hair helps with this kind of confusion

 

If you look too girly maybe you should grow some facial hair or get a new cut...

 

Thanks alot buddy... but that was sooo embarrasing!! ^_^

 

Yer maybe I should.... The thing is though, I hate beards!! And short hair! Thanks for the advice guys, its very much appreciated!

 

bulk up?

 

that could just make him look dykey

 

Yer Im quite slim.... Athletic shaped about maybe 130-140 pounds.... Erm, long hair, smooth complexion, dress well.... y'know!!


but my confidence is dropping like hell.... any tips guys? please!!

Thanks for the help so far guys!!

 

umm.... be arrogant in a joking kinda way and it will boost your confidence through the power of suggestion

 

You have to be sincere too though. Girls can see right through insincere guys. So act like that only if it feels natural.

 

Well, if it's any consulation, I think you sound really hot! I love guys with long hair! I suggest you just take it as a misunderstanding. You said that somedays you just fall in love with yourself, I think those days will get you through your bad ones.

 

Just walk around naked,then everyone can see that you're a boy! lol.
~peace