I def. notice a guys hair 1st---curly or dreads or just hair that catches my eye. But thats when I talking about initial attraction. Then sense of humor is what I look for next. B/c if my guy & I can't laugh 2gether I don't c the pt. of moving forward w/anything. Usually the guys who have the best sense of humor are the more intellegent of the bunch as well!
physicaly... her face is foremost...in perticular her eyes and hair...it depends on her physical charecteristics what looks best, but my fave is long hair, dark or reddish (or both...mm auburn) her smile and laugh is good too...and also voice...certain accents are super hot as for her body, healthy not too thin, not overweight, that nice balance which allows for soft hugs and such, and is healthy and beautiful and causes the beauty to be radiant and also the way she moves...as a whole, and little things like hands i'm not talking about confidence, sometimes a bit of shyness is great, and overconfidence is daunting but most importantly it's what's inside... a BIG heart, for caring and happyness and love and laughter and all those wonderfull things and similar passions and viewpoints...not all the way through, im sure i've got some wrong viewpoints, and also it's cool to be able to discuss and natter about things some of the passions i like sharing is music, adventure and of course view points on things such as politics and such annnyways, ive rambled, i've been thinking about this before now...anyways, that'd be my match in some shape or form!
ahhh, strictly cosmetically. For guys, the chest and torso and stomach. Being muscular is a plus being close shaven is a ultra plus! For girls, either black with a huge ass, or asian, period. White women don't turn me on, even though i'm white. Especially not white AMERICAN women. But I would fall for a white woman, with a germanic accent, ooh thats good! German, sweedish, hell swiss. You know what they say about them swiss women in bed. "they open up in more ways than they're knives, and faster too!" HAIR PEACE! FREE LOVE! SIXTIES FOREVER!
Eyes for me are the gateway to thought, the greatest asset available. I don't have a particular type of eye that attracts me but when i see a pair of eyes that enchant me i cant get them out of my head.
So recap; Eyes, shoulders, arms, eyebrows, smile, sense of humour plus more I've probably forgotten. The bar keeps getting raised higher and higher
i'd have to say intelligence and personality. i dig a chick whose a critical thinker. I could never date a right wing or materialistic chick. I just don't get along with them for some reason.
personality defo,godda make me laugh and i have a thing for glasses yummy they godda smell good too that alone can turn me on
a sense of humour and pretty eyes, does it for me everytime. Guys with girly bums are always a bonus too!
i think sharing the same values or morals is important for any kind of long term relationship. i dont think i could be THAT close to someone with any right of centre views. but in terms of getting to know someone, and deciding that you fancy them hair and a similar sense of humour is vital!
Hmm, I guess similar morals and values are quite important in a serious relationship. But when you're just starting to get to know someone, there are many things that can have a positive effect. Beautiful eyes and hair always turn me on, and a sense of humour is also a good thing. About intelligence...I don't need someone who is a genious, but I'd like to have a partner with some brains, so we can have proper conversations