When Did You Know Your Relationship Was Over??

What event made you realize that "ok, this is not working" and made you end your last relationship??

 

When she told me she was sleeping with her boss, that she was leaving, and would I mind driving her to his place.

 

ouch

 

I think you just know...

 

u rather spend time with the internet of impersonals
u rather just be by yourself withoutthe bother/annoyance of the "company"
anyway god

 

in one past relationship i realized it was over the last time we ever had sex. we had good chemistry up to that point, but during that time it just felt foreign and weird to be sharing that with this man. i still liked him, though. we weren't in love or anything, but had been together for a few months. then i realized it was really over one day when he totally blew me off one day that he had told me to expect a call from him. i waited and waited and finally got so pissed i just left the house and went for a walk. i can't stand being led around like that. i even remember my inner diologue and what i was saying to myself as i was walking..."wow, this is obviously going to fizzle out. we're not going anywhere with this relationship. it is obvious he's not in it 100% because his efforts have been less and less to spend time with me. it almost seems like hanging out with me is a chore. yep. it's over. time to break it off." turns out he came to my house later on that evening to break it off with ME. and my stupid ass let him say what he wanted to say first. i would've SO been happier being the person to break THAT one off. i hate being the dumpee.

 

When they laugh in your face and say you have no staying power when you tell them you're going vegetarian. *growls*

 

In one case, I overheard my boyfriend talking shit about me "I don't know why I started dating him. But I'm stuck with him now." I immediately walked into the room and told him, "Not anymore, you're not!" and left. Funny thing is that it didn't hurt me as much as it probably should have. Guess he didn't have as much of an impact on me as I thought.

 

Wow mono...that's crap.

 

I knew my last relationship was over when I relized I didnt want to kiss him or be touched by him... I didnt even want a goodnight kiss when I would leave.. Thats when it dawned on me that it was over.. It took several days to end it... But tha major thing that pushed it to the end was when he gave my cat away without telling me the asshole :$

 

When my last boyfriend became physically abusive, because he was so possessive & insecure.


My last boyfriend would stalk me & tape my telephone conversations or accuse me of sleeping around, if someone called the house with the wrong number. He even would unplug cables underneath my hood of my car, just so I wouldn't leave the house.

Thank God I'm no longer with him!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Ditto for me, but he wasn't the possessive type. He was the mean, macho Texas type. Verbally and emotionally abusive for years, but when he hit me, I finally 'got it' and left. Hurray for me, because my husband now is mostly a sweetie. I say mostly, because he still is a man. Hahahhahaha!

 

when my boy broke up with me.

 

my ex ended up cheating on me; then attempted to lie about it and avoid me.
he tried saying that 'drugs had changed him' and that he was 'such a druggie'

anywho

i realized that i didn't need him or want him when i ended up crying over him more than smiling.

 

well, my ex just never called me again. i got avoided.

 

my last relationship lasted almost 4 years....I knew it was over one morning when I woke up and just dreaded talking to him completely...the last thing I wanted to do was deal with him...however he kept trying to make it work so it didnt actually end for another 2 months and it actually ended when I told him I was going to party with my friend (who I had cheated on him with) and we were done..well the next morning he called me crying and all that fun stuff

I think in general though it just hits you one day..you just wake up or they just say one thing and you know it