ok this isnt about sex, im a vergin. but i experienced love a such a young age. i was 13 when i fell in love. we only staied together for about a month...pretty sad huh. but after that we still talked and stuff. 2 years later i moved away and he still calls me and ive tried telling him to leave me alone so i could get over him. he did for a while, then he emailed me and told me that he still loved me and he never wanted to let go. i know im kinda young, but this is the real deal, but were like400 miles apart and that will never work, but he insists on it, and i cant deal with not being able to see him, but i cant deal with letting him go either. im a mess.i thought i was over him for good untill last week when he called me out of no where and we talked for like 3 hours. hes called me everyday since, and the closer we get the more it hurts because theres no way that i can see him. please help. i dont like being the love sick kinda girl. im independant and i hate letting guys make me feel this way...except hes the only one that makes me feel this way.
just tell him that he needs to let go so you can get back to your life. it hurts to love someone that far away when you're so young because like you said, it's not like you can just up and visit each other. tell him if he really loves you, he will let you go so that you can be happy. if it is meant to be in the future, it will happen. if he insists on calling you over and over again, just stop answering the phone when he calls. or have your parents answer and say you're not available. explain to them the situation and why you need distance and i'm sure they'll help you out. and maybe get a different email address from what you have now, too. you can still keep the old account and archive his messages. obviously you really care about him and want to be with him but realize you can't, so you want distance. you can keep his messages, but still control how much contact the two of you have. good luck!
wow thanks. that seems a little easier said than done. i mean thats really hard. but after everything that happened last night i seriously think that might be the best solution. ......but i really dont want to
of course you don't WANT to...i know doing something like that can be really hard, because i've been in a similar situation when i was about your age. but believe me, over time you will feel better, and your life will become much less complicated. EDIT: and the human heart is capable of feeling love for more than one person. so, don't worry you've got your whole life to fall in love with someone and experience that kind of relationship, face to face.
