if you dont blow... and you dont suck...

then what do you do when you give head....just quick advice would be nice. Ive never done it before.. obviously, or else i would know what i was talking about huh. is it just like a hand job with your face? Tips would be greatly appricated.. i have a feeling i should go off and do this some day.. so.. graci.


adious

 

Being a guy I can tell you what feels good, not sure what is all going on though lol..

I like a girl to get it very wet (saliva etc) and go slow at first, but as tension builds and i breath harder to go faster. I for one have never gotten off from head before, so who knows, i just like it cuz it feels good. (lol)

I still await a girl that can get me off from head tho, lol. Dont feel bad if you dont get him off though, I for one enjoy it throughly!

 

I suppose it is a bit like a handjob with your face. I've only done it a coulple of times, but it seemed to come kind of naturally. All I knew about what to do is to keep your teeth out of the way. As long as you do that you can't do badly. However, keeping that in mind, using your teeth when you're trying to get your way must be quite useful.

 

act like its a popsicle..
I like to use my tongue alot..
or while you are sucking act like there is some special serum in there and your trying to suck it out..hehe

 

Well, I obviously don't have a penis, but I can tell you what I do that guys like & the advice given to me from my guy friends...even though its kinda of hard to describe without visual aids...

I find that guys like it if you use your hands to kind of give him a hand job & use your mouth around the head. With your one hand, you move up & down the shaft & kind of rotate it in a spirally (no better way to describe it) pattern. Like from the back near the base to the front near the head. They like it when you go all the way down to the base & back up to the head. With your other hand you can kind play with his balls (that sounds so dirty to me) & kind of gently play around with them, rotating them in your palm with your fingers. Be careful not to go too far down though, because if you don't know the guy really well, you might not know if he likes his pooper (teehee) to be touched & he might freak out a little. If you take the soft webby skin thats between your thumb & pointer finger, you can use it up against the ridge right below the head.

With your mouth, you can do all sorts of things. Make sure that his penis is really wet because its kind of like an indian burn to them if its not lubricated enough. You can run your tongue up & down the shaft, especially around the back of the base, on the head, & under the ridge of the head. If you put your mouth right around the head, you can use your lips just like you use that webby part of your hand to kind of pull upward while using your tongue to massage the actual head. Then kind of bob your head up & down over the entire length of his penis, from base to head while using your tongue to massage it. Some guys like it if you blow really lightly on the very top of the head.

As for speed, start off slow & gentle & gradually build up, going faster & using slightly more pressure.

I know it sounds complicated, but its really kind of easy. I used to hate it & I would refuse to give guys head, but as I became more comfortable with myself, the more I enjoyed it. I'd only do it for guys I really had feelings for, because it was always kind of degrading to me. I save it for people who are worth it...I love my boyfriend & I love to look up every once in a while to catch the blissful look on his face.

It seems like you have to be really coordinated, what with hands & mouth & tongue, but it really comes kind of naturally. I think guys just like having their penises in girls' mouths, so you really can't go wrong Just kind of alternate between all the things I listed above & get clues by how he reacts to certain things. Above all, just have fun with it...cause you're the one in control!

I hope I've helped! Good luck!

mad love
cortnee

 

just use ur fantasy.. and DON'T BITE!

 

Granola, that your picture? if so tis a sexy lady we have here

 

Definitely play with the balls. It just makes everything else feel better.

 

Wow...hmm...just re-read my post & seems like I'm quite the hoebag. Oops. I'm seriously not...::shrugs::...oh well.

Yeah...thats me in my sig...::blushes::

xoxo
cortnee

 

la di di! Thanks guys! major help... i just remember this one guy saying something on how a girl ACTUALLY SUCKED HIS DICk and it hurt like a bitch... so i was all kinds of confused. graci graci!

adious
oh jah.. granola kiss you dont sound like a hoe. lol not even a little bit. just good advice!

 

use your tongue a lot. where the veiny thing meets the tip- tongue there. it drives guys crazy. mix between 'sucking' for lack of a better description and licking.. it just comes naturally. pay attention to the guys sounds and the way hes acting, youll see what he likes. or just be all dominant and tell him to tell you what he likes... some guys like that. some find it akward.. but it'd help you if youre really unsure.

 

Cortnee, what exactly were you doing in that picture? You seem so sad, like your thoughts are drifting all over the place. Its a very nice picture at that. You really did a good job with that. Your in school for design? How nice. That should be alot of fun, designing things are so sweet, although I am a little embarassed (being a webmaster myself), how My graphics turn out. I'm more for the core programming lol.

Eh sorry for hijacking the thread!

*returns next reply back into original topic*

 

The sucking thing shouldn't hurt. It should feel pretty good, as long as she isn't a Vacuum.

 

Well granola.kiss covered it perfectly so now I don't have to type it all myself!!! I have had men tell me I've given them the best head ever & that's the way you do it!! It definately takes coordination & make sure that there is no teeth scraping either! That is the worst! After awhile it becomes natural, but remember, they don't call it a job for nothing!!

 

Hey, teeth scraping is fine with me! Especially under the rim. Maybe I'm hardy like that.

Suck the end like it's the tastiest lollipop you've ever known. You can't be coy, you've just got to suck that end off like there's no tommorow. Being able to suck can make or break a relationship IMO, so commit penile suction murder on that man.