I kinda want a baby.

Take it from someone who started having babies at 15,,, Ive raised 5 kids and lost 5 and life is hard. You have heard it all before,,, once you have a baby your life is not your own. BELIEVE IT... Enjoy Life and wait till its right...

 

people at my work are allowed to bring their kids its bit me with the baby bug big time. i so want to go to china and adopt one but then realized im too immature and poor to ave a kid when i asked my mom for a chinese baby for my birthday so i can be part of the cool group at work that all have a baby with super cute shoes or little shirts with bears on them.

 

I have a baby cousin who babysitting him is enough of a baby bug killer...I mean its fun to think about names, and stuff...but giving up my life...that would be the worst thing that could happen to me right now...its wierd how diffrent people are.

 

I'm only 15 and I get those quick little "oh jeez a baby would be grand" flashes for like 3 seconds..The natural maternal instinct vibe..Then I snap out of it, fortunately, and thank Bob that I get to live my life so carefree and enjoy my teenage years.

 

I just wanted to let you know that I felt the same way when I was 15. I think it is perfectly natural to feel like that, and actually good and unselfish. I am glad though, that I didn't have my first baby until I was 19. You change a lot and learn a lot during those years! Also, it is so important to have kids with someone who you really love, and who you agree with on things like values in life, how you are going to teach your kids, and other important things like that. Don't worry, just be patient! I am now 28 and am pregnant with #6! I have had them all at home with a midwife, and I homeschool them. It's great, and I wouldn't trade them for absolutely anything!