I really like this girl, and she likes me. we have a casual relationship, we're not going out but we do stuff with each other, to a certain extent. also since we're not really a couple we're allowed to go out with other people and/or do stuff with others. but I would like to start a more serious relationship, not really serious but acually go out. but whenever we're talking on the phone or something she is talking about some guy she really like but can't go out with him because their parents know each other and she's not supposed to date or some other reason. she is always really sad because it's always so complicated when she likes some guy. I want to tell her we should go out, it wouldn't be compicated at all, her parents don't know mine and theirs lots of ways we can hang out with out them knowing, we already do that. but whenever I want to bring it upshe is talking about another guy and I don't want to sem possesive or jealous, how can I let her know how I feel with out comming of as jealous? we started the relationship so we have someone to mess around with, so we can satisfy our sex drives, at first I didn't like her that much, I was always attracted to her but now I really do love her, and I know she cares about me but she still thinks of me as the guy she can do stuff with without any strings attatched, but now i've noticed that I love her, not just like her, and I feel bad when she talks about other guys, and I haven't done anything with another girl for talked about another girl for months because all I can think about is her.
you know what needs to be done, you need to talk to her, to sort it all out...and i wish you the best of luck
It's really up to her if anything more serious was to develop.If you became a little less available to her and she saw you dating other girls,she might spark up a bit more interest in you.I would back off for awhile and see what happens. ~peace
I know you say it's hard to talk to her, but you really should just keep trying. Make sure that it is clear how you're feeling, and what you want. The rest is up to her..you'll just have to see. Good luck!
