That would be "ending a relationship" for me. Really hurts, but in the back of my head I saw it all coming.
Nothing for me. I'm single for life. It's sort of my choice, because relationships always turn out that I wasn't cared about to begin with. But I've enver had the kind of relationship I'd want. I'd need someone extremely faithful, very intense, passionate and romantic, someone who has a sense of humor, fun and adventure. Somehow I've always ended up with guys who you could literally light a fire under their butt and it still wouldn't get them up & moving. I'm very adventurous and a lot of fun, and I'd need someone to come along for the ride. I'm also very passionate, devoted, extremely horny and just a little bit kinky but mostly romantic. I'll never find anyone who can match all my levels so I'm just not bothering. But I'll live my life not ever having anyone interested in me again to begin with so why bother?
wow. Now I can participate in this thread. I just got out of a relationship. We're taking a break. We're really good people, but we bring out the worst in each other sometimes. I used to be really fucked up in the head and I have to own that. Hopefully after a few months we can get back together and he can see the person I am now, instead of holding on to all the crap from before. I want us to date and see other people. I mean, I've been playing the role of a wife for 2 1/2 years b/c we have lived together (long story) and I'm only 19!! I'm not ready for that, and he thought he was, but just recently realized he wasn't. It's weird because there aren't hardly ANY other people I'd like to date other than him around here! But that's ok. I am not looking for another boyfriend right now. I'm taking time to work on me and it feels wonderful! He is ok with it too. He wasn't at first, but he gets what I'm saying now and we're actually good friends. We can hang out occasionally. He loves me and I love him and I'd rather take a break than end up hating him down the road.
I'm single have been for uhm.. ages really, the last relationship i was in was not very good atall but theres plenty of time for me to find someone yet
i am a couple months from having my divorce finalized...i am recently also out of a relationship that i thought was with my dream but timing was wrong..so if timing isnt right i suppose its just not the right person. so currently i am happy and content. i am not looking for love from another i am in the process of really learning to embrace myself...so i am contently out of a relationship and not looking though if someone were to come sweep me off my feet i most certainly would not fight it...it will come when the timing is right, no need to force it. perhaps with the last guy the time will come again and i would welcome it but i cant wait for something that i am given no hope to wait for.
Small brown i see where u are coming from. I am single i mean it sucks but its better than the people who are barely making it and have 1 or more kids to take care of as well. Id rather get done with school before having kids..because im not working a job i hate the rest of my life. School is my #1 priority so i can get a job i actually like. Most people i know are actually worser off than me despite if they have a gf/bf..etc.
~pfft~ An expression I use often. Single and comfortable with it. Still have emotional fall out from the last relationship...pfft~...Seriously like someone who's 1500 miles away, so we've only managed to hook up in person twice and since we cannot be together for quite awhile, there are one or two people I enjoy a verbal dalliance with. I enjoy being single again, I'm comfortable enough with myself and it's better than being in one that is full of strife. I will hold out and make sure that the next time, it's someome that will see me, understand who and what I am, and truly love me for it because I deserve no less. I love a line from a stand up comic..."Relationships should have the same rules as the airlines...only one carry on per flight (check the rest of the luggage please!)
Hey, Why isnt "Married" an option? I'm 21 and have been married for 3 years. When you are with a good person, marriage isnt the doom and gloom that people make it out to be.
im currently dating around. im so sick and tired of dating losers and then find someone that im tottally into and then the next day theyre like "theres nothing there" kinda crap. so im single and happy with it...for the most part. ide still like to be in a relationship but noone around my area really seems worth it.