i think i might have realized something

i think i have realized why i smoke so much marijuana. in fact, i dont even have money to spend on munchies anymore!. anyway, i think the reason i smoke it so much is because im a fucking loser who cant talk to girls. when i get high i feel very smooth and like i can talk to anybody and completely social but then the second i come down im back into that stupid awkward body of mine. man, i am soooo not making the best out of my teen years. oh well, they suck anyway dont they?

up until this point there hasnt been much good in life, i hope it gets better. if not ill just keep toking till i get to die.. alright!!

 

The only way to improve your communication is to try it out. Take a Speech & public speaking class. Best thing I ever done. You don't need weed to help you communicate.

 

oh yes i do! the only thing that comes out of my mouth when im not stoned is jokes. i hardly ever have a real conversation with someone. in an ideal world, i never come down.

seems like it should work the other way around, doesnt it?

 

Welcome to the HELL they like to call "your teenage years" or "the best years of your life". You'll be fine. You're 15 and going through the same thing every other teenager does. Try not to hide behind the buzz though, it could lead to problems. Just because you are shy, doesn't mean you are a loser. I am 32 and STILL have a hard time talking to women, they are not always welcome to the male advances...hehehehehehehehehe!!!!! Funny thing is, I am a professional musician, I shouldn't be "shy" when it comes to the ladies. I meet alot of very "willing" women after my shows, but I'm still painfully shy. Women are a tough nut to crack, but well worth it when you do!!!!!


Remember to "stick within your limits". I am an average looking dude, not ugly, not GQ, so I don't go for the girls that look like models......I'm only setting myself up for disappointment. Don't order champange if you only make a beer salary, get it????? Also, DON'T APPROACH THEM WHEN THEY ARE IN PACKS!!!!!! They are like wolves when 3 or more get together and you will most likely catch static from one of the friends, or as I like to call them "cockblockers", not from the intended target. Wait until she breaks from the pack and then make your move. Don't be pushy and LISTEN to what girls have to say when they talk, they like that. IF you are only concerned about getting some ass, they will pick up on it, it's like a 6th sense and you will soon find yourself with alot of girls that consider you a great "friend". This is fine, but unlike men, women can control themselves and NOT have sex with thier male "friends".

Hey, what do I know....I still can't get 4 words out of my mouth correctly when I am trying to start a conversation with someone I want to get to know better. Good luck bro', it will get easier......DON'T HIDE BEHIND THE SMOKE!!!!!

 

wow i definately dont kno how to do that whoile quote thing

 

Hmm, weed doesn't help me talk to girls. I need alcohol if I'm gonna pick up any chicks (which usually doesn't happen anyway).

 

You gotta learnt to stop carin so much about what ppl think i mean if you ask a girl out whats the worst she can say? the worst she'll say is no. It wont kill you it wont hurt im the same as you guys im really insecure but i just think fuck it if i dont try i'll never know. go for it mate.

 

well i have the same insecurities as you guys do but i have helped myself overcome them by thinking that if theyre going to be an ass to me then theyre not worth it. i talk to people and am really friendly and flirtatious with strangers. its good practice! i think a sure way to get a date out of a girl would be to befriend her first. ive noticed that i will find a guy much more attractive if i become friends with him, so just become her friend first, but leave the door open for a relationship or she might not expect it and reject you when you ask her out after being friends for a while. good luck!

 

Yeah that would help as well. Talkin to them like theyr just another mate but be that extra bit friendly with them lol.

 

just that extra bit of friendlyness gives you a chance. girls like compliments

 

Hey marquee have U tried instead of going for the girls that everyone thinks is hot, but finding like the quiet girls that everyone dont mess with and just talk to them, u will realize how beautiful they are, then you will be like woah I can actually get a girl to talk to me. Then just talk about your problems with her, and she will open up to you, and it could be the girl youve been looking for all this time. It makes sense.

 

Man, I'm just like you. Only 18, and still no girl. But one thing you could do is get a job. It's kind of a trade off. Most likely, you'll hate your job with a passion. But you'll also slowly lose the shyness. I worked for nearly a year as a cashier at a grocery store, and it was hell. I now work in the back of the store as a stocker, and it's not so terrible anymore, but I'm probalby not getting the social development I did as a cashier.

 

Great... give people more excuses to lie about pot. That shits HELPED me meet chicks before.

 

the onyl time i get shy is when im in situations to do with dancing. i jsut cant do it. or going to large parties... caus im never sure if girls have boyfriends ready to bash me as soon as they see me chattin up their girl.

but anyway, for me, the last two years, last year in particular, have been teh best in my life. socially, personally, relationshiporially..

i left it too late to ask the girl of my dreams out tho... had i done so a week or two before id have had her.. but she got bored and then saw me jsut as a friend... it got me depressed and alchoholic. anyway im over that now tho she still could spread me like warm butter.

being alone is alright for a bit.. but then it gets so lonely. i must put my foot down and ask my favourite girl out as soon as hollidays start, next week.

but yes the lesson here is, your teen years are how you make them. if your longing for love, then jsut go for it, caus the window of opportunity never stays open forever. weed shud be to have fun and enjoy, not to help you do things your meant to be able to do sober.

 

just remember how to smooth talk it, it aint really all that hard

 

Fuckin no they don't suck. The teen years have been the best of my life. As long as you can get past the stupid shit they put on you like how uninformed you are because of your age, and how incapable you are (of anything) because of your age, it's fine. My parents for the most part facilitate my actual intelligence, and don't act like I'm an invalid because I'm 17. (And have for years, and I'll be 18 in less than two weeks so that's cool, maybe other people might pick up that idea when I'm a legal adult).

If smoking herb allows you to be more social, social as you'd like to be then you obviously ARE making the most of these years, by doing what helps you be the person you'd like to be.