Sooooooo Lonely.....

Sorry i had to vent to somone, and since you all are slowly but surely becoming friends, i figured who better. it seems that as of late i just cant find anyone to be intimate with. be it a relationship or just casual love making. now i dont want to sound cocky but im not ugly....inside or out. granted im not brad pitt, but im definately not ugly. good smile, loving personality, large in the right places (i mean heart and brains...get your mind out of the gutter), furthermore, i am well endowed (ok, get your mind back in the gutter) lol. i just dont get it. it seems like since im a nice guy, i get walked all over. and to be quite honest, i obviously do have sexual needs. not to mention im a hopeless romantic who loves the idea of a relationship. its just soooooooooooo frustrating sometimes. anywayz, thanx for listening everybody. any help is much appreciative.

peace and love
adam

 

its the nice guy part , some will say that they want a nice guy but its not true ,or at least never reafied .....all theese girls who say they like guys with long hair are fucking guys with short hair ....all the ones that claim to want a nice guy are fucking an asshole.....im willing to give up being nice but wont cut my hair .....america sucks ....the women here are self obsessed and borring !

 

if ya dont like american women, look further afield. anyways, have you met every american women? hmmm??

hahhahaha. anyway, I like nice guys. so dont drop the nice guy persona for anyone, because that proves that there are girls out there who DO like nice guys. there ya go.

maybe if you go looking for something you will never find it. let it come to you when its ready.

stay nice

love.

 

Well your first problem is your too nice, every girl is gona say they are looking for a nice guy but they really arnt

You can still be a nice guy just you cant act like a pussy. Check out this site it really helps.

http://www.doubleyourdating.net./

 

when i moved ehre i was a nice guy but got no girls, then when girls started to get to know me i had 7 girlfriends in 3 months. my last gf(were fuck buddies now)always told me i was too nice but she loved me for it. dont stop being nice cuz then you become like all the guys that make fun of you. guys say i act like a pussy but i dont care cuz more girls are interested in me for who i am more than for having big muscles or playing for the football team.

 

i just got my heart broke by a "nice guy".

the problem with "nice guys" is that they don't stay nice. that's why you see all these women fucking assholes. they were probably "nice guys" when the relationship started, and then let their inner bastard out to play. and the women stay with the assholes and keep fucking them in the hope that they'll turn "nice" again.

 

I have a kid by a "nice guy". He's never seen his son. We were engaged and I caught him cheating. "Nice guy" yeah right. They don't exist

Yeah, I'm bitter, and what of it?

 

might i suggest you try lighting him on fire?

sorry, i'm stressed out today.

 

Join the club everyone. You show me a nice girl and the only thing I expect to see is a Gibson ES335, beyond that I don't believe they exist. Sorry, I'm more bitter

 

I burned all of his clothes, does that count?

 

was he wearing them?

 

no he was gone. I thought it prudent not to commit murder, with the baby coming and all.

 

You should feel good about yourself. It's so hard to find a truly nice guy in this world, and you should be proud of that. Someone will see that and be very happy that they were one of the lucky ones who found a nice guy. I know a lot of people who would kill for one, but you just have to find the right person who will appreciate you for who you are. Peace, man.

 

haha, i more or less posted the same thing. im lonely (though ive never been one of those people who needs a relationship/companionship) im fine with having a good group of friends to pass the time with.


but it would be great to not be as lonely. and to get some.


but yeah, i have my own post venting about that.

doesnt it stink!!
youve got the nice guy problem, ive got the 'one of the guys' problem. ( but just about everyone ive had a relationship with has been a nice guy. nothing wrong with that. we like that. i promise)

 

im a nice guy... lol and yet I still am single... I would never cheat on anyone.. out of respect. even if I was dating someone just out of fuck buddies, i wouldn't mess 'round with anyone else. but I can't even get a fuck buddy lol. Oh wells. Lonely is as lonely does, i guess. haha

 

Dr. Robert. You hit the nail on the head. You are a nice guy. Think about the girls who have this inbuilt biological drive to find a partner who will be the father of their child. Someone who can take charge and drive away all the bad things in the world and protect her and her child when they are at their most vulnerable.

No, you don't have to be a total arsehole either. But you do need to show a little edginess, some masculinity, some drive, some ambition.

Of course, women also want romance. And tender words of love in the morning when you wake up in their arms. And during the day too.

You need to be all these things. A tender romantic who loves them and cherishes them and yet is able to win the battles of the world as well.

 

Being a nice guy does nothing but get oneself taken advantage of. Nice guys trust way to easy, as well as go to the ends of the earth just to please his women.

If women actually wanted nice guys so bad, i'd have a girl. lol.
They always date the ass's tho. Oh wells..

 

dont want to meet one more american gal ...dont want to spend more than a second more than i have to here . im a closet nice guy but refuse to be outted cuz its all over at that point , the termites take over! i have done more than look farther afield!

 

correct again kitty , i was once almost tarred and feathered for doubting the sincerety of a self professed nice guy {not this kind poster }i thought his propriety was a mask for insecurity and jelosy ....on theese very forums as you say nice guys and girls dont often stay that way cause its affected and direct or self delusion im a self admitted selfish asshole so there is no tartuforical hipocracy to weigh me down , and im usualy nicer than nicies cuz im doing it for its own sake and cuz i want to be giving. i dont see it as my nature so its not a job or burden.i hooked up with a free wheeling crazy woman once and had 5 yrs of bliss ...i hooked up with a nice girl once and the first few years were ok , the last few a hell enduring a demonic and destructive bitch !i think we should all at least try to be honest with ourselves and others and open to new experiences ..if you dont love yourself and all in existance down to the last grain of sand {including your enemies and advarcaries}you can love noone and nothing no pretence at false propriety will make it so....so be yourselfes kids and dont let anyone walk on you when it ceases to amuse you!

 

cbrmale- You got it just right! I would have to say all the girls/women I know, including myself, agree that is exactly what we want from a man.

Although I am occasionally admonished for being a hardcore feminist, I believe that from a biological & evolutionary point-of-view, females are driven to seek out a protector & a provider, but at the same time are looking for tenderness & romance.

xoxo
cortnee