Just when I thought it couldn't get worse...

Okay, my life is a fucking nightmare. My man left me (I mean he's leaving town for good) I may never see him again, I got fired from my job on Tuesday, and then just last night I royally wrecked my fucking car!!! Two flat tires, both airbags deployed...I'M FUCKED....What's going to happen next? Somebody put me out of my MISERY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

*HUG* Thats shitty Im sorry! I would invite you over for coffee but Missori and WIsconsin are pretty far away.

 

{{{BIG HUGS}}} I'm really sorry things are so rough right now kindwoman. I hope that tomorrow will be a brighter day for you.

Chin up.

 

Sending you lucky, happy vibes and hugs! Sounds like you need to sit with some trees for a bit. I suggest tonight you do something really nice for yourself. Have a lavendar bath with floating candles in it (try it; it is magical: the ripples highlight, and the water contrasts the shadows with glowing light, much more than when the candles are on the ledge of the bathtub). Just be with yourself. Send yourself love and ease.

 

all i can say is, when it rains, it pours.

trust me, i know

 

I'm so sorry to hear of your situation...*hugs*

Things wll get better, I promise!

 

Focus on your breath, always changing no? never permanent. EVERYTHING is like that. Get used to noticing how your breath is like that, and get used to it happening everywhere. In other words learn to meditate.

 

things always seem to work out in the end, at least they have so far

 

mm. that's terrible.i wish so much i could help you. then consider that a) things with penises suck, b) they all need to go die. because the nice ones are ugly and the hot ones are assholes. or gay.

i suggest icecream. and chocolate. well, chocolate ice cream would be best

 

fix the car, get a new job, put on something cute and go look for a new man.. life is way to short -- have fun!

 

Well, it's been a month since I posted that thread and things haven't changed. I appreciate your advice, brokenhunny, but it requires money to get my car fixed. Oh, and I found another job since then but got fired from it too...As for the new man goes, I'm not looking around. I think I'm ready for a break from that for awhile. I'm still waiting around for my man to come back from SoCal, or for me to go there.

 

Hey, so sorry to hear your story,remember no one can make you happy,except for you.You have people pulling for you wether you no it or not.

 

I'm beginning to believe there's something to the loss of car,job, and significant-other during a short span of time. I've read it several times on here, had it happen to me, and know a few others who've suffered it as well. All I can say is... get a new job that you like, start saving money to get another car, and forget about this guy... move on, take care of you. Chasing him down or waiting for him to return sounds like an awefully bad idea; a sign of low self esteem. Someone who tucks tail and runs away isn't good for a relationship, ya know?

 

man..you should try Missouri and Australia!!!
hugs to you kindwoman and I hope that you are doing well joining the others like me who are carless, manless and jobless! There are so many cool combinations of this and what you might be doing and why that I figure that even if this is going on for you there are definitely things in your life like your friends and family or pets or food or dancing or music or something that will be doing it for you and keeping ya fulfilled...
*passes some sugar*

 

Well Maybe The Good News Here Is That Bad Things Happen In 3's, So Hopefully (i Hope For You) That Your Bad Luck Run Is Over For A Long Long Time. Things Will Start Getting Better For You, And About The Guy...maybe Soon You'll Realize It Was For The Best. You Sound Like A Nice Girl And You Deserve A Good Guy, Not Someone Who Is Playing With You Like You And Your Feelings Don't Matter. It Sucks To Learn Things The Hard Way, And Believe Me...we Have All Been There. I Live By This Notion..."everything Happens For A Reason" And Karma Is For Real. You Will Be The One Who Ends Up Being Happy And As Soon As He See's That You Have Moved On And You Are Happy...i Promise You That's When He'll Want You Back, And Then You Can Tell Him To Go Fuck Himself!!! Karma Is The Shit!! Keep Us Posted, And If You Want To Talk Some More (about Anything) You Can Pm Me. I Come On Here At Least Once A Day (i'm Looking For A Job Too!!) Good Luck And Stay In Touch!!

 

Oh, NOW to make things worse, my internet boyfriend on Hip Forums just told me he's seeing someone (in real life). I can't even get a "virtual" boyfriend. Men just really suck right now. FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

"anyday above ground is a good day"
-bob dylan

i hope maybe in some way this will help you.

 

If thats the case, there was no real loss of him. I have been going thru much of the same thing since December. Lost job of 7yrs, almost my house, the guy,finally got a job, lost it...I was hurt about the guy, nice time for him to bail but it was better than living in strife.

I am not defined by having a relationship nor what I do for a living as I don't need outward affirmation from what I need to find from within. I've had a few relationships that started online and one thing I would suggest. If you don't have an opportunity to know anyone they know in real life, no way to weigh what they tell you in a reality based way, don't bother because they are all too good to be true! Some people are good judges of what they would be like not what they actually are like.

It will get better sweety, thats all I know. It will at least get different.


The Wheel (in part)


Small wheel turn by the fire and rod,
Big wheel turnin' by the grace of God,
Every time that wheel turn 'round,
Bound to cover just a little more ground.
Bound to cover just a little more ground.


The wheel is turning and you can't slow down,
You can't let go and you can't hold on,
You can't go back and you can't stand still,
If the thunder don't get you then the lightning will.

 

Wise words GD. Although some people online can be as mistrusting as eachother sometimes and only open up in private. As in with you saying some people are too good to be true. Some are, some arn't, but it can take time to get enough info out of people at 1st if they have been hurt in the past. You are right about the Wheel though, and I never read this b4 you brought my attention to it, as even I overnight in my sig have turned to the wheel for my thoughts and life after a personal tarot reading. I hope your life and all your lives get on track and that the choices of light guide you to the right path.

 

Yeah, it's definitely getting different, that's for sure. FUCK................................