I'm afraid I will end up alone...

It's weird....ever since I lost the "love of my life"...and truly he was..I was head over heels in love...

I just have this eery feeling that I am going to be alone...an old maid

 

Relax girlie, your only 24.

 

me too, the sad paert is i am only 17, hey at least we will have eachother

 

How Did You Lose The Love Of Your Life, I Mean If You Don't Mind Me Asking?

 

What's wrong with being alone?

I've heard it said that until you are comfortable being alone, all your relationships will fail.

 

"I've heard it said that until you are comfortable being alone, all your relationships will fail."

the theory is that you can't love some one else until you love yourself but it really depends on what you define as a failed relationship, if it was enjoyable and both people got something worth while out of it, it is a success even if it ends.

 

I have lived alone and I have lived with people......I have loved and I have been told "I love you"...and that is suppose to be love but not in all my life have I ever felt loved.......

save one exception..... my children

So now you tell me what does that mean?

If you feel like you are going to end up an Old Maid..... make some friends.... and make peace with that knowledge... don't go thinking that finding "love" answers anything.... love is whatever makes you happy...............................buy a dildo and some big pillows ... you'll never know the difference

 

Come live with me.

 

I am rolling my eyes at myself. I was being rather maudlin yesterday. Who knows if I'll be alone? Let me tell ya: after dating the idiot I dated for a year, I'm like a wild single woman. Life is awesome.

However, I did lose the only guy I've been in love with...the only one that I actually wanted to have kids with, and pictured being all old and crabby with...we dated four years. How did I lose him?

We kinda lost each other. We were going different directions...literally. When he finally made the decision to move to Texas, it just sealed the deal. It was sad..and weird..the most mutual breakup in history.

So that's my sob story. But it's a sunny day. And I'm excited to go soak it up.

 

Tempting

 

well i had luved this girl that i went out with at 16. i never told her i loved her cause i was a bit shy around girls back then, still kinda am today. she never called me again. instead of crying when i got my heart broken i just drank some brew. i've been single for two years and i'm still a virgin. there's a good chance that i'll be alone forever, but i don't worry about it cause i comfort myself with music, poetry, philosophy. for some reason it helps me feel better about myself.