Am I just being an overly sentimental girl or are there others like me? During sex, I get extremely bored and cannot climax at all if there is no love. My friends all have had casual sex and one night stands and they say they have no problem climaxing and enjoying coitus without an emotional bond. I've been told I'm a very good lover and I can go for quite a while and please him for quite a while as well, but that all changes if it's just a chance encounter. I just am not feeling it. (Mind you, that makes me sounds like a whore, it's only ever been 3 times with the same guy. I've only had 3 sexual partners) Am I the only one that NEEDS to have emotion and intimacy on here?
I know exactly what you mean, although "playing around," may be fun I dont do it and if I did Id never feel happy, because I dont think sex is as enjoyable without love invovled.
ur not the only one i feel the same, its just not as good if there isnt a certain level of emotion involved.
For me.. Sex is a way to express and share love. Maybe that's why they call it "love making"..! We can't love someone because we have sex with them. But, sure we can enjoy a good sex with someone we love.
you are definatly NOT the only one girl . I have that same problem!. I have only climaxed once, and that was from clitoral stimulation while I was getting eatin out.. I have never even gotten close to climax with just plain sexual intercorse. I wont ever have sex again till I know I love the guy.. Just me though. I have been hurt way to many times to name ... and NO you are not a whore, you are totally normal
No, you're definitely not the only one ! It's exactly the same for me, if I'm not emotionally involved with the guy, I really can't enjoy sex.
