I recently (finally is more like it) committed to my relationship with the girl ive been chasing for over 2 years now. Yes I AM happy with her and though were a bit testy together I feel that were starting off at a good pace. Unfortunately she doesn’t seem like the wonderful female personality I fell in love with so long ago. Am I wrong to feel this way? Also there is another girl, im not sure if she knows (I hope for her sake she doesn’t) but I am inexorably drawn to her. The feeling that I have for my current love and this new girl is basically the same. I CANT DISTINGUISH BETWEEN THE TWO. Its sad, and im disgusted with myself. I need some resolution please! Does anyone out there have any views on this? Am I a horrible person? Can love be separate as I so very much would like to believe? Have you had any experiences like this? Help please?
Love is subjective. You don't have to be with ONE person. That's just traditional bullshit. Explore, have an open relationship. The main thing is BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF and you'll be honest with those you love as well. Let them know the real you and risk it. If they love and accept you, they'll accept it. If not, carry on. NEVER get involved with a jealous person or your days are fucked...and NOT in the good way, my man.
