i'm a shy girl, and i tend to push guys away when what i really want to do is fuck the shit out of them right on the spot lol, like my b/f now, i really want to have sex with him but i dont know how to set it up and go about it without looking too obvious, u kno that im takin advice form people online, and that im putting moves on him lol, i wanna make it seem like im going with the flow... who can help me with this??? here's when its gunna happen tommorow nigth im sneakin out of my frends house and going to his house with a frend of mine (girl) and im planing on doing it then in his room, but i rele dont know how to go about it, and i want a plan that me and my frend can go by!!!
Here's an idea: since you're only 15 I wouldn't recommend jumping into sex right now. I mean, consider the consequences thoroughly before you make any choices. You don't realize how young you are right now, believe me.. I remember being 15 and dating a 19 year old thinking I was so mature. Well, I'll be 18 soon and I'm still a virgin. Just remember that true love waits!!!!!! And if you insist on having sex, I'd just wait for him to put the moves on you. No since in you jumping the gun, right? Maybe he doesn't even want to right now. Well, there's my 2 cents. I'm not trying to preach, just trying to help. Peace.
She's already been with four guys, moon. Psycho, you don't sound mature enough to be having sex. Granted, I don't know you, but from your posts it seems as though you are having sex for the wrong reasons. If you were really mature, imo, you would wait until you were in love and then have both the guy and you would get tested for STDs. If you aren't willing to get tested and don't want to ask your b/f to get tested, you are asking for trouble. Even if he comes out clean, just the fact that you were better safe than sorry is a sign of maturity. You also NEED to go see a gynechologist if you haven't done so already. It's your vagina, and your responsibility to take care of it. If you still chose to have sex, what form of birth control will you be using? Keep in mind that genital warts, genital herpes, and crabs CANNOT be protected by using a condom. As for what to do with your boyfriend, I really don't understand what your question is. Guys are always horny, you can get him in the sack any way you want to. JUST BE SMART ABOUT IT!!! -Kate