ok I have this problem.. my penis is 7 - 8 inches long and pretty thick in girth.. Although to most guys this sounds great its not really.. In the past i have missed out on many an opportunity because condoms hurt too much, tried all difffernt brands and sizes. then the few partners that i did have unprotected sex with mostly had small vaginas.. here's were the big problem is.. my recent partner is everything i look for in a companion, my perfect mate but she has a small vagina.. it hurts me to try to make love to her and its so tight a fit that i have no control over my organ and end up coming in minutes.. although she says i please her in so many other ways than that, its a pretty big deal for me, both confidence wise and satisfaction wise.. I need to know is there any way to combat this mis-match..? any way of making mine thinner or hers thicker..? Please help as i think she is one of the great ones and i dont wanna loose her to this and before you reply "if you love each other then....." I would really like to do something about this not just for her satisfaction but for mine.. sincerely species_8472
Spend more time on foreplay and getting her prepared for it. Try using artificial lube. Try different positions, some allow deeper penetration than others. Just try different things until you both get comfortable, because you're both stuck with what you have equipment wise! lol Lets face it, she can get a baby out of there, so it is able to grow. Quite considerably! Good luck The Borg Queen... lol
yah u should probally spend more time on foreplay dude it will prolong the intemecy in ur sex life u will have more u can do
Yeah, I agree with ^.. Lots for foreplay, lube, positions.. I know for me, that there is a major difference during doggy and missionary.. During childbirth we dialate 10 cm.. Trust me, if she can get a baby through that she'll get a penis through it.. Our vaginas stretch as we have sex (although they do go back to normal size).. The little bit larger the penis the little bit more we can take.. I do know a woman and man who were married and got divorced because his penis was too large.. Not saying that will happen to you, but things happen.. Good luck hun!
I am great with foreplay, its my favourite part, teasing, anticipation, exploring and adoring but when it comes to the crunch the problem arises.. It's a big deal for me guys but i have to say it REALLY hurts me to try to penetrate, A LOT! lube has come into the convo alrite and i guess ill have to try in the end.. i just wish there was an easier way.. intercourse with a big vagina is such a great experience and i hate myself for lusting it when im with her.. well anyways keep me posted on the latest scientific intergalactic inventions that cater for my problem thanks for the replies guys.. Species_8472 P:S Borg-Queen "We're coming for you... resistence is futile!" ;-)
Haha yeah, since you can't get your penis in her 'vagina' just stick that sucker in her oh so much larger asshole.. =/
spliffvortex you obviously didnt read the first thread properly.. the ass is just as tight.. or have u ever done it naturally..?
definately more foreplay... if you use your fingers inside of her during foreplay, it helps get a girl ready for intercourse itself. You said you ejaculate pretty fast - condoms do help with that. I know you said you've tried all of them, but maybe you should try talking to your doc about it, maybe he/she has some suggestions on what you can use.
It's sounds like she needs her pussy stretched. Have her start with a zucchini and she can progressively get to an oversized cucumber. Her twat should eventually get to a size for any man to handle. 99% of the women at these forums have enormous holes so maybe they have additional suggestions for you. Hope this helps.
Of course you could always try introducing toys into your foreplay, get her a dildo or vib that is slightly smaller than you, use that as part of your foreplay so when you go in shes nearly used to the size already. But to be honest, this isn't really a big dick problem, without enough lube (for whatever reason, some women just don't get amazingly wet), its going to hurt no matter how big a guy is. Astroglide is your friend, use it! On another matter, Jitter_B that doesn't really sound like the kind of rant "A Peace Lovin' Creature" would come out with now does it?? lol
trojan makes magnum condoms which are designed to fit men larger than you. you might want to try those out; while they might not be "comfortable" (no condom fits like an old shoe) they'll at least feel like a condom should. a regular condom can fit over an adults head, after all. a lot of condoms have some lube on them, so it might help in that sense, too. i agree with what others have said: foreplay, lube, and positions. i also agree with what someone else said, finger her first. the vagina stretches, so again: foreplay, lube, and more positions! dude, TRY THE LUBE! there's nothing wrong with using it. there are no bad stigmas, it doesn't mean you can't get her wet or are inept in bed. it's not expensive or hard to find. you make it sound like using lube is some sort of awful last resort. an easier way than lube? really, it's not difficult.. sorry if that sounds rude, it's not meant to. lube's no big deal. just give it a whirl and see if it helps.
Just to add to that.. it can also be a lot of fun! Make it part of things instead of thinking of it as an unwanted extra.
Listen, I have the same problem with my boyfriend. His dick is too large and he cums fast. Sex is really painful. But I still enjoy it cause it does end up feeling really good. The more you have sex, the more she'll get used to it. And finger her before sex. that will help big time. My boyfriend needs to do that for me. And it works.
thanks for the advice guys.. foreplay IS a big thing for me.. its been my best feature after full on intercourse.. I dont like the idea of lube simply because my love-makin sessions are so sensual and spiritual that i think tryin to incorporate lube into it would only mess up the flow (for me at least)..
Infact, anything from the garden will help in conditioning a vagina. Remember kids, it's easier to stretch a vagina than it is to shrink a penis. Happy gardening!
yeah.....same thing here species, if she puts her thighs on your shoulders it makes it a lot easier for a big dick to get in a small vagina because you can get a shitload of penetration in that position
Well I Can Anwser This Question From Experience. My Husband Is Very Well Endowed. He's Long And Thick, And It Hurt Like Hell The First Few Times, But Then My Pussy Grew To Accomodate Him. It Just Took Alittle Time And Alot Of Lubrication!! I Could Never Go Back To Being With A Guy With A Small Dick Now, I Like It Big And Fat!!!
