i keep attracting the wrong attention from guys, so what do you look for when u want just a lay and what do you want from a girl who you want a relationship with? -x-x-x- love nicelytoasted :H -x-x-x-
I don't know, the same "nice" guys that saw they want an intelligent woman with a nice personality were WAY nicer to me after I lost thirty pounds, so take anything they tell you with a grain of salt.
I might reject a girl if her weight was a health concern. I equate being obese with smoking. They are both preventable causes of death. I would have to see her to tell you though. What specifically do you want to know about what I would look for in a personality? I can't really imagine. I would want somebody who has beliefs similiar to mine. That doesn't include religion. I mean like attitude torwards gays and stuff. As far as intellignce goes, personality is intelligence. It is extremely difficult for me to catergorize wemon into what I would want. I can tell you what I don't want, the obese and the dumb. Of course, I am 15. I have never had a girlfriend. People ask me who I like, but I don't like anybody inparticular.
for most guys? here's a list of requirements for that: 1. female 2. rule #1 may not always apply. ahhh! the 'r' word! she used the 'r' word! run! generally, that's where it varies for every guy. I like them not fat,not skinny, but healthy. I like them to be some kind of geek. i'm a tech geek, the one i'm seeing right now is a history geek. Some like girls nice, some like them naughty. Sorry, there just isn't one answer for what all guys look for when it comes to wanting that 'r' word.
if i want a lay i look for: attractiveness, looks, energy (hehehe) if i want a serious relationship i look for: intelligence, looks
i no all guys r differnet, i just want personal opinions. can u specify about looks and personality ie deep, trusting, funny or nice eyes or ass? x-x-x-x
im not usually out there looking for a serious relationship, but if I ran into some intelligent woman I might consider it. For serious relationships its all about intelligence for me, not necessarily being funny... tho that wouldnt hurt too... an wen i talk about looks im not specifically talking about eyes or ass or anything in specific... i just like a person that takes care of themselves rather than let their body become horribly unhealthy. i think as long as a persont akes care of themselves, that they cant look unattractive, unless they have some sort of disfigurement... basically everyone is attractive as long as they take care of their bodies.
When I look for serious relationships I look for an attractive girl that I can chill and be myself with, and I recently just found one
You might be surprised how similar men and women really are when considering love, sex and relationships. Ask yourself the same question and maybe it will be the answer you are looking for.
First, I'd like to say that I never go out "looking for a lay." However, I have had a few relationships that were mutually just about sex, and those were with women I probably would never have "fallen" for. The difference in what I look for? If I'm looking for a long-term relationship, there are a lot of criteria ... a list gleaned from years of dating different sorts of women, all great in their own right. I'm looking for the usual characteristics: honesty, trustworthiness, sense of humor, family values, etc. I also look for a healthy sensuality, passion for life, common interests (and some uncommon ones, too). I want to be with someone I just love spending time with, whether we're out on some adventure, out for a Friday-night dinner, or just hanging around the house doing nothing ... together. Someone who no matter what I'm doing, I know it's always better if I'm doing it with her. At the times when I've not wanted to be in a serious relationship, but still was open to dating a person in a sexually-active way, a lot of those above qualities aren't important anymore. Some are ... trustworthiness, for example, is a good one. But I'd be looking just for someone I'm sexually compatible with. Are we attracted to each other? Do we like the same things in bed? Do we have matching sex drives? Things like that. Does that answer your question enough? If not, feel free to ask me more specific questions.
I like a girl who knows what she likes and also do's what she likes. I like a girl who is open and wild. A girl who likes to burb and drink beer and doesn't care about the latest fashion. I like a girl with a character as Cameron Diaz and also looks good. But I dont likes miss perfects and values.
Just for a lay-almost any willing female, the hotter looking the better. And that depends on how horny or drunk I am. For a serious life long relationship, looks help otherwise you may never talk to them, but you have to have something in common, same likes, same hobbies or at least those that compliment one another. I've been married 25 years and we really don't have all that much in common, except our kids, I enjoy the outdoors and she has no hobbies, or activities. Needless to say it is amazing we lasted one year let alone 25. If I could do it all over again I would be more selective. Sure we had problems, almost divorced twice but was able to reconcile, after the kids were gone it is just her and I and if she doesn't like it, it will be just I. I put up with alot of shit and I'm sure she did too. Relationships take work, and hard work at that. Both have to give and take, it seems like I give and she takes The only true advice I will give you is that a guy thinks with the wrong head99% of the time till he gets older and sex is no longer that appealing, the thought of it is but the actual act isn't all that important. Should tell you something about my age. I'm older than dirt, if I wouldn't of over hunted we would still have dinosaurs around. Dave
um..... I look for a person who can keep up w\ me if she can't pick up a conversation I started a week ago and left dangling w\ out missing a beat and is pretty okay looking we're good to go, btw this must be conscistent and I'm a freak so leave me out if you're trying for a nice bell shaped curve
Me personally. I'm attracted immediately to women who are confident and friendly, and have personality. No particular hair color or style, no particular build or body type. I'm instantly turned away by women who are overly shy and quiet. Who wear a lot of perfume and makeup. Who SMOKE CIGARETTES. I'm married, so I'm not looking for a relationship OR a lay. I'm just speaking about being attracted. When I was single, she had to be 1. Female and 2. Willing...
