"How do girls have sex with girls, I don't understand?"

I get asked this question quite a lot you see and I can understand where they are coming from really...
It's usually:
"How do girls have sex with girls, I don't understand?"
"What counts as sex with lesbians?"
"How is it as good as hetero sex?"
Do you find it offensive when people ask you that and what do you say to them?


I usually just tell them whatever, if it felt like sex, then it probably was

cya later x

 

mind your own god dam bissnes

 

As long as there is an understood goal, and a will to meet the goal between all participants.... sex will be GREAT!
I hate when people ask me how gay men have sex! That's the most inane question one could ask; actually it's prob not.
I just smile and say ANAL SEX.... of course they usually say "doesn't it hurt?"
LOL

Some people just don't know how to work it!
Jesu

 

What's wrong with just asking? It's not like they're trying to be insulting, they just don't know.

 

I agree feministhippy. I used to ask myself that question years ago cause with lesbians it's not easy to figure out how it works..we're so used to see sex as being a penis penetrating an orrifice (intercourse).

 

There's nothing wrong with asking any question. I just hate being asked the above mentioned!

I can honestly say knowing how to have sex has never been an issue to me. That's just me though!

 

i tell them....graphically. lol I had one chick faint when she asked. She was okay but I guess she didnt know about that kind of stuff, I mean who hasnt heard of a strap-on, or fingering? It was funny tho.

 

:H Well, it's like this..... When 2 people reguardless of gender want to have sex, we just do what comes natural! A little bump and grind, kissing here, licking there, holding, cuddling you name we do it!!! Now, Does That Answer Your ?????? Or Do I Have To Draw You Pics.?

 

Well, it's like this..... When 2 people reguardless of gender want to have sex, we just do what comes natural! A little bump and grind, kissing here, licking there, holding, cuddling you name we do it!!! Now, Does That Answer Your ?????? Or Do I Have To Draw You Pics.?

 

I don't understand how people can be so damn stupid, it's fuckin' common sense

 

Sorry about the doublke posting, after all I'm only human! Anyway about what Iwrote if you tell the curios what I said I'm sure they will never ask again! But if they don't get it and need the pics. then they are either stupid (really) or they are screwing w/you!! either way, peace to you!!!

 

In rare cases, they're just being smartasses...

 

Actually, it's fun to satisfy heterocentrists' rubberneck curiosity with the most graphic, minute detailed description possible of the many homosexual acts perfected since time out of time and add few loud orgasmic sounds for garnish before they pass out or run away like sceaming banshees.

Their facial expressions are priceless.

If they have the balls to ask the question, they better have the balls to listen to the answer.

 

Or they could be homosexual and CURIOUS about what you do. I know alot of adults have the intelligence of children, and are ignorant, or lead sheltered lives, whatever.

There are more types of sex than just vaginal that people don't recognize, anal and oral. So, even if you only have oral sex, its still sex.

 

I think most people are just curious and when I have been asked I just tell them you do what comes naturally.

 

I've never been asked this, seeing as how I only tell people my orientation if they ask, or if theissue is brought up in conversation, yet I hate it when people just 'assume' I'm straight. Not to mention, I'm still a virgin. Next year I hav sex ed class in school, and I'm assuming that they're not gonna cover gay/les issues all too extensively, so I'm researching all the health risks and issues ofthe matter, seeing as how I'm bi-leaning-les. Then I plan to give my class an extensive detailed speech on it just to creep out the homophobes! Then, if they do not adequately cover gay/les issues I'm drawing up a petition!

 

it depends on who is asking...i had one of my managers ask me, and he was genuinely interested, and i told him graphically. but if some guy just asks me, rather rudely, ill just say 'what you cant seem to do correctly'.

 

Well I think one reason why homophobics are afraid of gays and lesbians is because they don't understand. So asking questions is a lot better than assuming, there's nothing wrong with being curious.

 

I get asked alot when I tell hetero friends that I had sex with so and so.


"How do girls have sex with girls, I don't understand?" I explain it to them slowly. I basically say anything that can be done without the use of a penis. And of course, then there is strap ons.
"What counts as sex with lesbians?" This usually leads to the whole "Lesbian Virginity" issue.
"How is it as good as hetero sex?" Well, I've never had hetero sex so I wouldnt know. But, I always thought that there is no bond like that of a woman and a woman, friendship or romantic.

And anyways. It's damn good.

 

It's really a matter of lack of imagination if people have to ask for specific lesbian love techniques. One could really have fun and say that lesbians raise their left elbows at a 90 degree angle to the west wall of the room and emit a gutteral sound that causes ultraviolet light to emanate from their vaginas which is converted into corresponding sound waves causing clitoral stimulations producing orgasmic waves which travel up through the Earth's atmosphere and enter through the first ring of angels which is recorded in the seventh heaven in the Book of Everlasting Life thus assuring lesbians reincarnations.

Or you could say that most females' experience their sexual stimulations not so much in internal area of the vagina but in the external area of the clitoris which can be stimulated to orgasm, therefore, penetration of a penis into the vagina is really not obligatory to cause orgasmic sexual satisfaction which can be attained by stimulation with any part of another female's anatomy on the clitoris which could be a tongue, a finger, an elbow, a toe, a nipple, another clitoris.

In other words, a penis is not necessary to produce female orgasms.

Carry on girls. You don't need a penis to have a good time.