There is a post on here right now about how somebodys bf wont kiss her after a blowjob... it made me think, when i give my bf a blowjob and he does not cum in my mouth(or at all) like as foreplay, he will passionately kiss me.. BUT if i give him one where he does cum and i swallow it, he kisses me, but he wont open his mouth to french kiss me or anything, just a peck. So is this as bad as the other posters situation? im starting to think it isnt cool.
I was okay with it, then i read that post and realised how many guys think its wrong and dont do it, and it made me think, and i realised it would be much better to have a real kiss than just a peck. My situation didnt seem to be as extreme as hers was to me, because i was still being kissed, nobody ever specified really what KIND of kiss, like if it was open mouth or closed mouth.
If it bothers you, you should talk to him about it. I don't think I'd be okay with that.. it just seems pretty disrespectful.
Maybe he can change, I dunno, but I do think it's uncool. I don't believe in being inhibited, sexually. If it comes from our bodies and it isn't excrement, it should be enjoyed... saliva, cum, sweat, all of it. It sounds like your boyfriend's inhibited. Either talk this out with him and get him to understand your side of it (and change!), or find out if he is unwilling to loosen up, and replace him. You can find a guy who will share everything with you like that, and who will kiss you passionately under ALL circumstances! I am living proof that there are at least some guys out there like that! Blue skies, -Jeffrey
Then you can consider yourself less sexually versatile than the rest of us. Cool with me, bub. The girl's'll just like guys like ME all the more when they run into us. How much do you think a girl will like and appreciate your silly little double standard? If your dick and your cum are so gross that you won't kiss her after sucking them, why the fuck do you think she should be willing to do it for you in the first place? -Jeffrey
Don't worry peacefuljeff...I'm in the same boat as you. It doesn't matter to me when she kisses. She allows me to kiss her after I give her oral...so why wouldn't she be able to kiss me when I'm the one recieving.
Actualy, I think you have got a pretty sweet boyfriend. My guess is that he doesn't like the taste of semen. On a purley sensual level, he probably would prefer not to get that taste by kissing you. Yet at the same time, emotionaly he knows how important being kissed is to you, so his emotional connection to you overides his sensual inclinations and he ends up kissing you. You have a considerate man friend.
would you want to french your guy after he ate you out. if your answer is no then ya know how he feels. if you wouldn't mind then maybe he shouldn't either. I dunno I don't french my hubby after I do that just out of respect. I'm bi so pussy juice in my mouth doesn't bother me but I don't think he'd think it's real cute to have his own cum in his mouth.
I have never eaten out a woman and had her object to me then kissing her full-on. In fact, some seemed to like it! And I have done plenty of kissing after getting blown, and yes, after I came in her mouth. One girl even "snowballed" me without me expecting it at all! If I were inclined to really loathe the taste of (my) semen, I would have been kinda grossed out and maybe upset. But I had, in curiousity, tasted my own semen before. (I don't see how someone can really object to something that their own body produced, as long as it's not a waste product.) It was no big deal, and realizing that it was an erotic kinky activity added to it. -Jeffrey
Hey Vooddoo, New here. Been married a long time. At first I would do the same, just a peck, but over time as we both got less inhibited, etc. and lovemaking got better and better, for variety we started trying different stuff. We have snowballed several times after I came in her mouth, and it was very hot for both of us. The taste and texture was really nothing like I was afraid of. I also go down on her after and eat her creampie after on occasion. This was harder to do the first time than snowballing, but once I did it once, and saw how much my wife loved it, it gradually got easier for me. And it slowly has turned into something I really like now too.
this thread is almost 2 years old, why are you resurecting it when the orignal poster probably doesnt care anymore?
I dig kissing after getting my beaver munched. I don't get it. Granted, cum tastes like.. well, cum,but it's very paranoid of guys to absolutely refuse to kiss. My dude won't kiss me either, unless I drink something or wait a good while. It's gay as AIDS. And HippieFlowerGirl, how exactly are you a child of the 60's if you're only 19? Maybe a child's child.
maybe it's as simple as not liking the taste of cum. i don't. the taste makes me literally throw up. that's not a double standard...it's just some ppl like it, some don't.
I'd find it hot if anything. It would be a bit unfair to give your gf a mouth full of liquid that you think tastes disgusting, and then treating her afterwards like shes just eaten a pile of dog shit. Stupid really.
You know I totaly agree with that one, if you're willing to give it to her... you gota be willing to take a bit to.... I hate it also but out of respect, and an unspocken agreement, when I get one and they go to kiss me, I kiss them right back however they kiss me. I ignore the taste if there is any and just consentrate on the fact that she was great, and let me drop the sap in her trap
I love it when she kisses me after, especially if it's still in her mouth. Maybe you guys are nasty or unhealthy, or maybe just afraid, but mine tastes great!
