My best friend is a guy and we've been good friends like brothers/sisters since we were kids. His gf is another best friend of mine from High school days. Now- she moved back home from New York and she told me in confidence that she hadn't broken up with her old bf. What's worse, she's sleeping with her boss for promotions. I love her and she told me this in confidence, but she's cheating on someone I care about too! I feel so ashamed when around him, but if I tell him then I risk loosing her. If she had done this to some other guy I wouldn't have cared. This is too much. What shall I do? She won't come clean with him.
ok, this is what I would do (doesn't mean it's the best solution, but that's just me) I would tell her that she needs to tell him NOW. Or you will go to him and say that he needs to talk to you. That way, you aren't keeping anything from him, you are not betraying her trust, and you are out of the middle. Tell her how much you care about this dude, and that if it was the other way around, you would want her to know. She has to understand that, right? If not, I would space yourself from her. She sounds kinda manipulative and slutty anyway. Sorry to sound mean, but I don't agree with women using sex appeal to get ahead in life. Use your brains, girls.
