Bachelor & Bachelorette Parties...

If you found out your fiancee had sex with a stripper at their bachelor and/or bachelorette party would you still marry him/her???

 

I'd kick her out on her skanky ass *not marry her*.

 

I'm supposed to find some male strippers for my cousin's bachelorette next year.... mostly as a joke she told me I had to.

If s/he was honest and upfront with me about it, and it was a one-time only or EXTREMELY rare incident, I think I would be ok with it. Dont' wanna find out afterwards, I'd want to know ahead of time. So long as my partner is just watching and not touching, s'ok.

 

I would break up with him even if he was just in the same room with a naked woman.

 

depends on how good my bachlorette party was...

 

No... I have known quiet a few strippers.. And If my man had sex with one it would be over.

 

I totally agree with you on that one.

 

I doubt I would care, as long as she's honest and tells me about it.

 

I would become the runaway bride! Just kidding. I'd probably kill him by way of pushing him out of a moving vehicle. I've never found bachelorette parties all that appealing, so when I get married in lieu of the traditional bachelorette party I'll probably just do something fun and girly like a musical marathon with lots of ice cream and soda and pink stuff. I wouldn't really care if my boyfriend wanted to go out and drink with his friends but I'd hope he'd be committed enough to me to keep it PG-13 rated.

 

hah... I just realized I totally misread the question. I thought she was asking if you'd break up with someone for going to a bachelor/ette party with strippers... was wondering why everyone seemed so close-minded. I would break up with someone who had sex with a stripper, who had sex with anyone behind my back. That's outrageously disrespectful.

 

No, there would be no way that I would marry him after that.

 

First off, a lot of you seem to have the opinion that strippers always have sex with their customers. Personally, a man is more likely to score with a random woman he meets at a bar or club than a stripper.

That being said, I'm not really into the whole bachelor/bachelorette parties. If you really feel that you need one "last night of freedom" before you get married, perhaps marriage isn't for you. I really don't think marriage is the end of all the fun you can have with our without your spouse. If I'm ever engaged, I'd rather just throw a huge joint bachelor/bachelorette party with me and my fiance together. Strippers, of course, will be considered

 

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I agree, Rapunzel.

 

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i don't believe in bachlor/bachlorette parties.