Ok, when me n my b/f first met n got 2gether, he moved to a diff city in Cali then i was 4 days after. On Feb 25, he came to my home town, where i was stayin til my b-day(Feb 27) this year. when we got to were i was living at the time, he was stayin with his friend. A week later, he got kicked out of his friends place, so i begged my grandma to let him stay with me n her. She said ok. A month later, i was kicked out of my grandmas house n i moved back in with my mom and he stayed at my grandmas. We lived in diff cities so we didnt get to see each other. This past Sunday, he moved back in with his mom, who lives in Arizona. What does this mean?? Does it mean that i should give up on our relationship, no matter how much i love him. OO, one more thing, I lost my virginity to him the night b4 my b-day. Did he use me or wut?? Please help me, if you can.
why are you both getting kicked out of your houses? If you both keep getting kicked out, isn't there a possibilty he might come back? Also, you gave your virginity to a guy after being with him 4 days, not seeing him for (don't know how long that wasn't specified) and then seeing him for 2. I dont know if he used you, but you willingly gave it up so the fault does not lie with him if he did.
Not only that, but if you both have personal problems that are causing each of you to have your own family tell you to leave, then I think the more important thing here is to work out your own issues and your own life before dragging others into it. I'm not trying to sound harsh, but it is reality and you asked our opinion. I don't think he used you, at least no more than you used him.
