Christian, bi, and pissed off

lol I went to a GSA meeting in school, it was pretty awesome. ^_^ The day before my english teacher had a talk w/ me. Somehow she found out I was bi...I don't know how...and I wasn't worried about it though because my bi friend Robin said that Ms. Wilson was supportive of her. Then I had to listen to her go on and on for an hour about how I'm not bisexual, not messed up and perverted, and it's just a stage I'm going through. Then she went on to say she believes God put her in the teaching position so that she could 'Show is love by straightening out the confused and perverted youth in the public schools system' I was like...wtf???? But she really is a crazy old lady (ask anyone in the school...she's pretty loony) so I ignored it. lol only three more weeks taking classes with that psycho bitch!!
Thanks for all the links and support, everyone. And Dawn...^_^

 

Call me an old-fashioned Christian, meaning that I subscribe to the words of Christ rather than someone's interpretation of those words, but I've always been of the conviction that God should have the final say of what a sin against Him is. Anyone who persues homosexuality, or heterosexuality for that matter, in a carnal, lustful manner may in fact be judged wrong in whatever life awaits. But if a woman has love for a woman, or a man for a man, what sin can there be in that? That's why I don't have a problem with gay marriage. I do have a problem with civil unions, as I personally feel they lack that extra oomph of a bond, if you will, that can only come by making one's vows in the presence of God. One may say that God is everywhere. Yes. But having a judge perform the ceremony doesn't feel as right to me as having a minister perform it. I can only hope that churches begin to realise that God will bless any union of love. This too coming from a Southern Baptist, so all of these damn hippies and liberals may try and re-evaluate their elitist prejudices against the South and its majority religion.

 

hell, i'll start up a gay/les/bi supporting church if i can easily get people to donate large sums of money to me.

 

Hi Goinginsane et al.

Gay and Christian are not mutually exclusive.

There's a very good web site for Gay Christians. Currently, they are down for reconstruction but should be back up and running by Monday.

http://www.gaychristian.net/

Enjoy.

 

Oops.

Sorry, I should have written Frigginsane instead of Goinginsance.

 

[...]Jacob Lawrence Orosco, 17, hanged himself on September 3, 1997, in his mother's home. When Jacob and nine of his friends tried to form a Gay/Straight student alliance at his school, a group of students at a nearby high school formed SAFE-Students against Fags Everywhere.[...]

I absolutely can not give an explanation for this! Why? Why? Why?

 

Hey

Well firstly, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Being bi is not wrong, unnatural, dirty or anything like that!
I'm 17 and I'm bi, so I get where you're coming from. I've only come out to about 2 people lol. I'm not Christian, so I can't really give you any advice, religion wise.
All I can say, is that you should embrace who you are and NEVER feel inferior to anyone. Because you're not. You are you. Unique, strong and bisexual lol!
I don't want to be rude about Christianity or anything, but I think parts of it can be very destructive. My cousion sounds like your friend, the one that thinks homosexuality and bisexuality is wrong. Because of this she has ruined relationships with family members. We used to be so close, suddenly she's a born-again Christian and she's freaking out at me because my Aunty is homosexual and lives with her partner, now she isn't talking to me just because I'm bisexual and "going to hell" I mean, I think the key thing that all religons need to remember, is to respect each others beliefs. As long as they're not hurting anyone its all good.
Thats something you will start to notice now that you're 'coming out'. The amount of people that think being gay/bi is wrong. You need to really start being strong and not backing down to anything. Just because you are bi doesn't mean your personality has changed. You are still you, and to be honest, your sexual preferance has nothing to do with anyone else. They need to mind their own business!
Stand your ground and remember that if they are against you just because you are bisexual, they are not worth your effort.
Private message me if you want!

 

A lot of people end up in the middle if honest enough to them self; I think wehn people call themselfs BI it just means there more gay then straight

Funnily enough it also has little to do with sexuallity in my opinion; it is more a being able to be ver intimate with someone; having a relationship with one person that means the worlds to you; that you can travel the worlds with; for a BI person it just doenst matter wether there men or women.....

 

lol well
i am 16/ a male/ a christian/ and i think im bi...well i say just be proud to be yourself, be loud out of mind and out of control. yes you can support christianity and homosexuality at the same time, nothing can physically or mentally make you stop doing either, so calm down

i dont know really(nobody knows) if god/and or jesus, would like homosexuals.. it says in the bible that he hated them...why would he though?
is being gay really much of a choice? no..
what the choice is, really, is accepting whether or not you are. and well if you do, according to the bible and all the retarded dickheads that dont understand, we arent gonna have such a great afterlife...
and science is proving that homosexuality is NOT a choice, and it is caused by the type of hormones you have...perhaps the reason why non homosexual christians go against homosexuality is BECAUSE it just may prove the bible wrong...and they know it.
in the end...just do what makes you happy..dont live in remorse.

 

BI could be more straight than gay... Or exactilly equal. I don't really know for sure.

 

what i don't understand is why christian gays try to convince us that the bible is not homophobic, when patently it is. and the actions of the church(es) through the centuries has been violently anti-gay, as it still is. apart from the uniting church of australia all other australian churches boot u out if u r a, what they euphemistically call, 'a practising homosexual'. does this stem from some deeply rooted unconscious need in gay-christians for approval from the parent figure or something? the christian church hates us, so i think the only self-respecting thing to say to the christian church is a big, loud, 'get fucked'.