Having an abortion

Oh my god. Have you no respect? You strick me as a bit of a selfish bastard, to put it bluntly. Wanting only hot girls and thinking one that got pregnant is automatically fat. And here's one for you. Put the coat hanger up yourself and if you come back a. alive, and b. without any pain then you can talk.

Wish you luck Adrienne. And I'm sure you've noticed afterwards people will be there if you hurt or what not for more advice or support.

 

Good luck hon! One of my good friends just had one, and she said she cramped and that she had to wear a pad for a couple of days. She said the procedure was overall pretty painless... physically anyway. You're a very strong person for seeking help and support. I hope all goes well for you.

 

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Originally Posted by justmeagain2x4
Dont watse eh $$$ GRAB YO SELF THE COAT HANGINER.i KICJ girls to teh curb babys turn hot chcs FAt!

I don't believe for a second that a guy such as him has ever had sex. Not with a woman atleast

 

His hateful post has been deleted.

 

Thanks Maggie... that put me at the stage that if I knew where he lived... let's just say I have a short temper... oh wow, I hope her appoinment went well and no complications or anything.

 

I must say, that most of the time I go with the opinion that if you post a problem on a public site, you can't tell people how to respond.

Although this is a very sensitive subject and she has politely asked us not to try to change her mind or debate her on the ethics of her decision. I have been in a similar situation and I can only sympathze with and for her. Yes, I am a prolifer more than prochoice, but I can tell when my opinions are appropriate and when they aren't.

Much love and peace to you, sister. I hope everything goes well for you and you get to start over.

 

dont know if this was already mentioned BUT pay the extra to get "put out". trust me.

 

also.... be warned. this could happen to you too... i was getting ready to get it done and we all got called out for a bomb threat and had to go outside and their were people pickiting us.

 

oh i see now it's prolly already done. im sure it went okay but let us know, kay?

i had some serious clots after that that hurt but other then that i was fine.

 

Very true, Moe. I know often people feel vulnerable, but this is a public site, and even without being an attack, someone will probably post things one doesn't agree with, or can hurt your feelings. I have a policy of not posting a lot of personal dramas in my life, as people are free to say what they want or give unsolited advice. Of course,when you post, be ready for advice, agreements as well as people who totally disagree with you. (Moe, I don't mean "you" personally, I mean "you" as in "everybody who posts." If that makes any sense.)

I think if something in your life makes you TOO vulnerable to criticism, it is best not to post it on a public site.

One of my pet peeves is when someone posts asking "What should I do?" and then gets all upset when people give advice contrary to what he or she was planning on doing already.

 

Thanks everyone for their support and advice. Everything went perfect, I had the gas as well and don't remember the 3 min procedure anyway. I have no emotional baggage what so ever. I know I made the right choice for myself, my family,and future. Thanks again

 

I dont know if this is appropriate or not but I am in the dark a little...
What is prolife and prochoice?

 

glad to hear that.

i knew it.

 

I am glad everything went well for you. Heal now, sister.

Blessings,

Maggie

 

This is a bit of a complicated question, as it involved womyn's right, personal morals, law, religion ect.


Bascially, Prochoice beleives that a womyn has a right to her reproductive freedom. Birth control, and in instances where that wasn't used or failed, the right to a safe, legal abortion. Most people who are "ProChoice" are not neccesarily "pro abortion" but beleive it should be available, in situations where the womyn would be better off not being pregnant. AND That that decision lies SOLELY with the womyn and her health care provider, not religious leaders, lay people, realtives or strangers.

Prolife beleives that womyn should not have the right to decide what goes on in her own body. They believe that the Churches and the Law should force a womyn to carry a pregnancy she doesn't want, even if that would result in emotional damage or result in illness or death of the womyn.

IMO, abortion should be safe, legal and rare.

 

Did you mean to say prolife?

 

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Thank you, Val, I messed up. You are correct. Damn, I thought I edited that before. Thank you anyway.

Rapunzel, there is a LOT more to Prolife and Prochoice to just beleiving whether or not abortion should be legal or not. That is a gross simplification, and denial of the much of the details of the issue.

It isn't that simple.

 

i've had 2 abortions, my second one at almost12 weeks, and the pain for me was always emotional, almost felt nothing down there, although i was bleeding a lot. I didn't know i was pregnant, the 2 nd time, but felt like shit during 12 weeks, and after the op there was sorrow and releif, i felt better after a while, it was the best decision i did... IT IS YOUR BODY!...