i have a question

Discussion in 'Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans, etc.' started by wild_about_hippies, May 7, 2005.

  1. wild_about_hippies

    wild_about_hippies Member

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    my question is why do guys like lesbians so much? its not like they can date them or anything because they are lesbians and if your not aware lesbians not like guys lol so i dont quite get it .... i can semi understand if they like bisexual girls but why lesbians? so if you can answer my question then that would be greatly appreciated! thanx!
     
  2. devska

    devska Member

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    I think they just like to watch.
    I wouldn't really know.
     
  3. monosphere

    monosphere Holly's Hubby

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    Well, straight guys can be squeamish about seeing men giving or receiving sexual pleasure, even when another girl is involved.

    But to see two women together. someone you'd lust over with someone you'd lust over doing things to each other. Not to mention that women appear more graceful in their lovemaking than men. And then there's the taboo of it. Besides, what straight guy hasn't fantasized about being with 2 women?
     
  4. vimmeroony

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    Some guys even have fantasies of being one of the women in a lesbian love-fest. We learnt about it in a paper i'm doing at uni - leads to some straight men who cross-dress in their older age.. something about the exotic becoming erotic.

    I'd say that a few guys like it just because they figure it's what straight guys are supposed to like... maybe.. i dunno..
     
  5. monosphere

    monosphere Holly's Hubby

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    Well, I like it because it's just a beautiful sight to me. Of course, I also like seeing two guys together and guy/girl sex as well. I like it all.
     
  6. carebears

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    because its forbidden to be with them i guess, its kind of a fantasy to be with two women, i mean people can fantasize and i guess it makes sense i think all sexual acts are beautiful in some way. i mean for me its a connection not sex really, and like you could fantasize about being with someone, but it doesnt mean you want a relationship. i dont i am kinda tired i didnt get much sleep so yeah bye!
     
  7. jungee

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    I think there's a correction that needs to be brought up to your question : it needs to be "why do guys like lesbians so much..as they are represented in popular culture and pornography" ;) I'm saying that because studies said that when shown real lesbians having sex most straight men were not turned on by what they saw, some were even disgusted.

    I think monosphere has a point: straight guys are attracted to feminity (just like gay guys find masculinity hot) so the sight of two feminine women together is that more exciting for them. Some will even picture themselves as being one of the girls in the scene, and seducing another..it's just fantasy play.
     
  8. the_sweet

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    I see why they find the idea exciting. But it's annoying, they presume if you're with a woman you're going to be fine with them getting off to you kissing your girlfriend, in clubs and just wherever and it isn't ok in the same way it isn't ok to stand there and get off on a heterosexual couple sharing an intimate moment.
     
  9. LOSTBOY7

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    I Like Evreone Gay/sra8t/bi/les/ Littalgreenmen/blokes That Dress Like Girls/girls that DRESS Like Blokes
     
  10. Who dat?

    Who dat? Guest

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    I personally don't like dykes, most hate men and anything with a penis. They all suffer from penis envy.
     
  11. babyjay

    babyjay Senior Member

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    they can't get shit, thats why.
     
  12. LJDV

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    I think most straight men like lesbians because they THINK they'll be able to somehow get them to have a threesome with them. Usually not the case.
     
  13. musicfreak9000

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    Simple, its fucking HOT!!! we just like it, i just hate it when straight guys are only homophobia to gays and not lesbians, thats sexist if you ask me.
     
  14. BlackTar_46

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    i have wondered for year :rolleyes:
     
  15. LorettaYoungSilks

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    Guys don't like lesbians, they like 'lesbians'.

    They like watching to strait girls going at it. For some reason I seriously doubt whether watching two real gay women going at it would be there thing.

    Hard to explain but surely someone gets what I am barking on about.
     
  16. Invisible Soul

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    I was just about to say the same thing. Guys like straight women pretending to be lesbians for their titilation. Someone told me that most women in lesbian porn are actually straight, which wouldn't surprise me in the least if it was true. I think this is also why some straight women just in general, will kiss or "get off" with each other in front of guys, it's purely to turn them on. I don't think most real lesbians would be of much interest to straight guys.

    @musicfreak9000: Yup, straight guys who are homophobic only towards gay men are complete idiots. If women can be attracted to each other, it surely just stands to reason that men could be attracted to each other too. It's a ridiculous double standard. I can understand them being attracted to one and not the other. But saying one is acceptable but the other isnt purely based on that fact is ludicrous.
     
  17. IANABIAP

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    It's not that "I like lesbians." Lesbian sex acts are just very HOT to me for some unknown reason:D.
     
  18. IANABIAP

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    Real lesbians not hot, ay:D? Would anybody happen to know any links to internet vids of real lesbians having a go:D:D?
     
  19. floes

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    4 tits. come on. who dosent love that? even lesbians love it.
     
  20. Invisible Soul

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    Duh, that's because lesbians are attracted to other women...

    Who doesn't love it? Heterosexual women and gay men certainly don't.
     

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