Boyfriend Goes from Smothering..to distant almost overnight!

Boyfriend goes from Superclingy...to distant! ?
Ok I just made another post about my bf but has to make this one seperate. We have been together over a year....and lets just say he is super clingy and lovey dovey towards me. I am not so much...hmmm...maybe cuz he has hurt me so much...does that make sense? I mean I show affection and tell him I love him but lets say I see him alot...and he says he misses me sooooo much...when i just saw him the day b4 and will see him that day...now to me thats a little much...but thats me. So he is alllwaaaayyys like that. Then this week goes bye and I didnt see him for like 5 days! On my day off he made excuses not to come over said he was gonna rest then found out he was playing video games! He told me that he did this with his ex! Didnt want to see her so would say he was tired so she wouldnt come over.
. Why couldnt he just be honest? So i finally see him after not seeing him for a week....and I was the one to say I missed him...I did! I went outside to hug him and his said some bulls*** like "oh its cold out here lets go in"....geeeez....I took it as he didnt want me to hug him...it was sorta odd. So he spent the nite got his nookie and almost immeadiatly knocked out and was gone the next morning. I thought he was gonna come over tonite...but he was very weird on the phone...and told me to call him when I wake up. Ok how can someone go from wanting to see me everyday to being so odd and distant like this....Its like he changed over nite and dammit...we arent even married!? lol I have had trust issues b4 with him...maybe he is seeing someone...or am I overreacting??

 

Ummm, stop going out with him...?


"oh, he's hurt me, i have trust issues with him, he is super-clingy...." Sounds like a recipe for a successful relationship!

Sorry, I had a long night!

 

well if u thought he was clingy before, u probably sent him signals about it, and he probably was hurt that u thought he was too clingy.

i say u got what u deserve, no one is too clingy if u love them