dear rearder, even thought i know you all have your own lives and helping me out is the last thing anyone here feels they need to do, but i have this problem, my boyfriend has had this huge problem with coke, and herion, he has just started to go to rahab after almost facing death, i am very happy for him going to rehab. and im glad to be with him more then i ever was. but everyone keeps telling me that i should break up with him while he gets his life back together, i know it sounds selfish but if u think about it, it may be true, i've been with him for a few years now and its like all of a sudden he hates me, its like he wants me to be there for him but when i get to see him on the weekends he acts like a complete asshole, he says its cus of not having drugs and i know it is, but im begining to think that he needs to do this on his own...aka he needs to hit rock bottom idk help me i have been cryin my eyes out for days