I have a thing for older dudes

Talk about an understatement! You're only 13 years old, dude. The only "older dudes" you're likely to attract are those sickos from NAMBLA.

And that most definitely will not sit well with the moderators of this forum. At least two others who expressed preferences similar to yours have been banned by the moderators for legal reasons, since relationships between adults and minors are a criminal offense.

If you don't want to get banned by the moderators , x-nay this ubject-say.

-- Skeeter

 

Maybe she doesn't mean she wants sex with them, maybe she just thinks older guys are cuter? hmm...maybe?

 

read more carefully. the author is a 13 year old boy.

 

I don't want to touch this with a 10 foot clown pole.

 

oh yeah, well maybe HE just thinks they're cute then. must be confusing being a thirteen year old boy.

 

An older dude COULD just be like... a 16 year old. I know when I was 13 I considered 16 year olds untouchably older.

 

When I was younger I sort of envied older girls, both because they were pretty and because guys seemed to like them, but now that I'm older I dont care about them and I am content with an older guy....so maybe its just a teenager thing?

 

My boyfriend is 41. After I turned 19, I haven't dated anyone under 35.

 

I like older guys but normally no more than 10-15 years older. On average I date guys 3 years older, but only because I hate high school guys.

 

I guess it all depends on connections but I've dated guys 2 years younger to 5 years older. Most wonderful relationship has been with a 22 year old while I'm 17. The connections were just there. Even if he'd totally freak out sometimes because of the law.

 

Yeah, but aren't you the kid who claims he's been buggered by his uncle and numerous other MAN-aged men?

And now you're saying that you like it?


-Jeffrey

 

Very good response DSK, you show a level of maturity that I did not see a few months ago. I don't know how I would have responded to that questionable post by Jeffrito, but my thoughts on potential replies were nowhere near as good as yours. I was going to say that I thought he might have a fixation, and maybe a secret fantasy about that, since it was not in line with the threads tone or direction, and it didn't even make sense.

Way to go kid, I'm impressed.

 

My thoughts exactly. You like what you like and it's nobody's damn business but your own. Though it sounds a little like you aren't sure yet, but in time you'll figure it out. Either way don't let other people upset you about it.

 

I agree! Good post DopeSickKid. You sound very mature to me and definitely more intelligent than some people here.

 

My husband is ten years older than me...it works great...

 

ditto.

 

If you are happy, age is virtually meaningless. I may be wrong, but I seem to see more couples where the guy is significantly older, (10+ yrs.), than where the woman is. My stepmom's mom is 10 years older than her dad, and my stepmom is 10 years younger than my dad. I have dated women 10 yrs. older and 10 years younger, and the woman I am with now is the most different in age of anyone I have ever dated, 13 years.

 

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LMFAO!!!! Where were you when he posted that he wanted to break a vodka bottle on someone's car?! And, um, it was because of a dog or something.


The kid may be troubled, but that doesn't make him some sort of hero. He has a long way to go. He can start by staying in school, paying attention, and getting off drugs and alcohol.


BTW, Blackguard, my post was intended to point out what I figured were inconsistencies in his posts/attitudes. If he really does like men, fine. I don't care about that and won't condemn him for it. I just hope it's not one of those things where the abuse that's been thrown his way is what "made" him that way. There are those two brothers somewhere in what, Georgia, who beat their father to death with a baseball bat at the behest of the dude who was molesting them...

One wonders if DSK might be under the influence of such a person.

-Jeffrey

 

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