*sigh* how old are you? i'm assuming, since you said english class, and from the size of your "cock" that you're still in highschool, or younger?... and thus fairly young. if this is so, then the girl has probably not sucked too many cocks, and so yours may seem average to her. who knows... you can't know for sure if she has been with older guys or not. anyway, 4-4 1/2 inches is small when you're fully grown, i must admit. but... if she's into you she might not care, and yes, any girl who's into it could you an amazing blowjob, because there wouldn't really be any "deep-throating" in that sense, you have it made. she may very well be disappointed....... but that's really only if you're having sex. if you're not, then no worries. learn how to eat her out and give HER head. don't be stingy. seriously. if she gives you an awesome fucking blow job, then you better blow her mind also.
i dunno bout size, i'm 6 1/2 inches and im 16, i've heard that 6 inches is the normal size tho i think, so im not really bothered so i cant really help you there, sorry, except that if you know you are able to trust her and she would still respect you, then it should be fine. you shouldn't really be doing it anyway if you don't already trust each other.
I think you should take it easy fella highschool is charged with all of this oversexed stuff... and you might end up doing something you wish you hadnt... so just take it slow... if she wants to I'm sure she will, but you certainly wont make it happen, and you probably should be making assumptions about what she will and wont do... or talking your self up with chavenist ideas about cock slapping her, you might give her the wrong impression. When I was thirteen, I agreed to let some boys squeeze my boobs, and I know youre not a girl, but it got me in more trouble than I ever bargained for... just a warning
Go for it and don't worry about your size..don't ever worry about your size, you'll ruin the whole session wondering what she thinks instead of how it feels
I think the point that Tiger Lily was trying to get across is that size can matter. But it doesn't have to. (Forgive me if I'm wrong, Tiger Lily) As I see it, size always has potential to matter. Whether it's too small, or too large, if you let it become an issue, it will. Any problem like that can easily be worked around. Give her lots of attention, oral AND otherwise, and she'll be less likely to notice any other minor details, like your size. Good luck and remember, have fun. Just one other question, why do you feel you need this?
I dunno...I think if you guys are just gonna have oral sex your size shouldnt matter at all, and maybe even if you DO go all the way it still may not matter as long as you are good at what you do. I think most guys just have this fear of not being able to be good in bed...But just go for it. Dont think about all that..just do what you can to make her feel good and enjoy being pleasured. It shouldnt be something you stress over!
Its not the size its how you use it, but then agian i have a small penis so i would say that. And also i've never actually had sex with a women. So dont listen to me.
If your cock is only a 4 incher, you better forget that "cock slapping" idea. Just be hopeful that she doesn't laugh at you. And I gotta tell you that your cock doesn't get any bigger than it is in High school. So don't get your hopes up.
yeah, i'm sorry, i didn't mean to say that size always matters, but that it does have the potential to matter.... thanks bella i had a few drinks in me when i typed that, so i'm sure i didn't explain myself well enough. you shouldn't worry about your size at all if you feel a lot to offer than just your penis for her to suck.... hope that makes sense now
Allow me to reiterate the fact that if you are now 16Y.O., your cock WILL NOT get any bigger than what it is right now! It's done so quit having false hopes.
HarryWasASoldier.....don't worry. Adolescence and growth vary between people. Some develop sooner or later than others. It's the human body,it's easy to generalize but often those generalizations are not accurate. I don't think it's a good idea for people your age to get involved in sex yet. It complicates things,in most situations. You really need to have trust and understanding with your partner. So let me just say this....there's a good chance you will continue to grow and change. If you didn't though,there's still nothing to be ashamed of. If you were having oral sex with a girl,then reciprocate. Knock her socks off with that..and you will have no worries
You're kidding, right? Size matters when it comes to oral. Obviously a massive cock is a challenge, but if it's small and there's nothing to get hold of, or if it's too short for you to get it in your mouth without crushing your nose against his tummy, it's really awkward. I sympathise with the guy, but that stuff just is true.
