Why do (some) Guys do that?

avoid those situations.

 

Is this in a handbook of some sort???? if so do you have a copy that I could borrow to show this asshole.... hehe... but it does sound fair *shrugs shoulders* I guess

we should let peace rule for a change

 

i know how awfull it is to live with a crazy girl who you may be able to restrain if you were awake all the time , but could be wakin ya wit a hamma wilst ya was sweepee ....but i think its kinna cute n strangly complimentary when a womem slugs ya or shoves ya ....hey i dont overreact or underestimate when a guy hits me ....its either a misunderstanding to be regulated forthwit , false pride notwithstandin , or serious which means the only violent way out can only see you survive imvolves negating all fear , hate and self seperation .....its guys that hate women or themselves takin it out on girls dat do dat shit ...hittin girlies .....fuckin looosers

 

Damn makno who you been livin with???
and thanks for the totally decent comment

 

you kan live with a nice person for yearts and then they san turn into monsters cuz a what happened to them and or what kinna nuttiness they had in there genes as it were ....when i was a kid russell escaped from prison ....his new name scott , carfully rehersed and rereherst by the conosiente .so as he was never referd to in his former incarnation .....on the road once i slipped ...an calld him russell . dude like slugged me , not outta bein a sadist , cuz he was bein real and mutual and still knowin that i carred but had to know where rattelsnakes sleep . in different cultures people lovingly bop each other ....but dammaging anyone withoutr a nessesity thing ....is sick ....and hurtin girlies is hoplessly wormlike

 

I know exzactly what your talking about actually in the crowd that I hang out with I am know for hitting and slugging just to show my affection but my affection rarely ever leaves bruises ....

 

its the lack of tactile contact in general that makes dammaging violence gain foothold through repression .....like willhelm riches critsim of facisn as product of repression phisical-sexuav well maby he was wiggin on one thing its seperation , although its an illusion , that breeds hate self loathing and dammaging violence .....so wrestlin round or huggin is the way to a non destructive thang !

 

mmm..hmmm definetly... if we could just get used to dealing with eachother in a physical yet non-combative way then maybe we wouldn't waste so much time on feelings of being inadaquate and all the other forms of dilusion that make us strike out in anger..... making sense isn't my stong suit... can ya tell... hehe

 

well it seems you made that out fine....i can make sense outta stuff just need a little faith ind a jolt to overcome inershia

 

Is that somehow different than getting slapped by a white guy?

And what colour was the second guy?

 

It sounds to me like this whole situation was the fault of 3 people. You, your friend, and the guy. The guy shouldn't be held solely responsible. What he did definately wasn't right, but if you all hadn't been so drunk it wouldn't have happened. Sounds like alcohol contributed a lot to the situation getting out of hand also. I hate to sound like a prude but if you can't drink responsibly then you don't need to be in public. It's fine to get smashed at home. I had a friend who got stabbed because he went to a bar, got smashed, and started running his mouth to some guy who bumped into him. What my friend didn't realize was that he was staggering and actually fell into the guy. The situation got real bad very quickly and the guy ended up stabbing him. You never know what type of people you're going to run into in the world. We all know this world can be a very shitty place and is filled with very shitty people. I would just rather be sober when I meet those very shitty people so I can better analyze and deal with any situation that might get out of hand.

 

wether it was a good idea to be some where or not , and if it was indeed forward to shove some guy that was equaly forward ......closing your hand and makin a fist and hittin a girlis [lessshes commin at ya wit a razor] ...is the transgression ....nothing else ,,,,,i suppose farmers in cambodia should no better than to plow their fields ....but when they are crippled buy a landmine its the us military and the manufacturers fault !....only fucking dirtbags hurt the weak !!

 

To be honest, it doesnt matter how much your provoked you can always walk away most of the time If you have had alcohol or not is neither here or there, in the day what you drink is your responsibility and therefore your so are your actions.

Now dont get me wrong, I've been in fights etc but that what I've said above is my way of thinking. For some reason, maybe I'm just being sexist, but stuff like that between blokes doesnt seem as bad. Hitting a woman is a definate no no!

 

You try having a large drunken man pressed against you with his arm on the bar and your back to the wall and try to walk away. Walking away isn't always an option when you're the smaller party, especially when the other person is drunk - they get stupider and meaner than they normally are and dont' always realize what is and isn't appropriate behaviour. YES, some situations you can walk away from, but the ones you can walk away from in a bar aren't very common.

 

this situaition was completely avoidable.

 

Sorry, that wasnt what I was trying to say at all, was saying that in general and commenting on this post.

There is no excuse for his actions, full stop!

Hope I made that clear.

 

I think he deserves what he gets from the law.

 

yeah it was..... I didn't have to go out that night..... I didn't (and shouldn't) have had that much to drink..... I didn't have to talk to some guy (making the assumtion that he was cool).....there is alot that I regret and I think from now on I'll have to take more responsibility for my own actions...... but thanks for the comments everybody

 

'I didnt excuse him , but why should anyone expect him not to react as he did? if you pushed me alot I gurantee you would taste my fist. period.

 

I have just seen the picture of that poor woman, and i personaly cannot understand the fucking mentallity of some people. I am a man, but never once have i laid a hand on a woman (or anybody for that matter). Whoever did that needs thier head examining.