Guilt

Discussion in 'True Confessions' started by Bloody_Kisses, Jun 13, 2004.

  1. Bloody_Kisses

    Bloody_Kisses Thizzler

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    its weird....i am constantly feeling guilty for everything and anything bad that happens to me or anyone around me....does anyone know where this may be coming from? i hate feeling this way. i even feel guilty for things that i know could not possible be my fault, like my mom getting cancer. i feel guilty right now because my mom is completely stressed about some party that shes throwing for her husband. i feel so bad for her. i feel like itsmy fault, i feel like there is more i could do to help, even though there isnt really.
     
  2. beachbum7

    beachbum7 Lookin' for any fun

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    Actually, I feel guilty for most bad things that happen to me... actually, some of those things may not "bad" or "terrible." But I often I ask myself "What if?" when something doesn't good the way it wanted. I'm not sure if I feel guilty if something bad happens to people around me. But in some situations, I ask, "What could I have done?"
     
  3. purcolekraze

    purcolekraze Member

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    dude i felt like that for like a month. Maybe it's a stage. I was smoking with my dad on tiem and I saw a scar on his face. I asked himwhat it was from and he said he had cancer removed. I still can't bring myself to face that's what he said nad I haven't told anyone since or else I will cry if it's said outloud.
     
  4. show_girl

    show_girl Member

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    i know how you feel. sometimes my dad will come home from work and while sitting in my room i can hear him grunting and slamming dishes. i'll always feel like he's mad at me even if i haven't seen him all day. when small things happen such as a chair breaking or glass crashing i'll think i somehow did it even if im not in the room. every once in a while i'll even feel like what happened to me with my uncle is do to my stupidity. it's a horrible feeling.
     
  5. Bloody_Kisses

    Bloody_Kisses Thizzler

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    same thing happens every day in my house, only with my mom. it gets so depressing. she always makes me feel like i am the one thats making her miserable. elyse, the thing with your uncle was NOT your fault! and you know that. anyways, call me because i want to know what your doing on friday. love ya! brittany told me to tell you that she loves you also.
     
  6. peaceful420

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    Yeah, I do all the time. But I'm super sensitive. Something bad will happen, then I feel terrible inside for something that wasn't even my fault. And if it was my fault, I don't get over it forever.
     
  7. Mui

    Mui Senior Member

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    i used to always be like that... its really a sign of depression... like you look at the things your having trouble with, and you always relate it to something being your fault... its my fault that whatever happened... kinda been like it for a while...

    now dat i see someone and take prozac it really helps me deal with things and be open though... .just wish i could have gotten the help earlier in my life because its really been effecting me sense middle school.
     
  8. interval_illusion

    interval_illusion Deceased

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    it's normal.... ive been like that most of my life- you just gotta learn how to get past it.....
     
  9. maryjaneguitargurl

    maryjaneguitargurl I am just like you.

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    Its normal.......i always feel sad when my mom has to worry about things i dont know i guess you just really care about the people.....


    peace
    chickens
     
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