I have a girlfriend that i love more then anything, and i love being with her. but lately all these other people around me, that i once liked n wanted but was ignored by, have started saying things like they like me and want to be with me but why now when im happy? like wen im single this never happens, its like some people just want to fuk with ur head and mess things up so ur not happier then them..why do poeple do this? do they get some sort of sick joy from it?
some people are just attention whores. when i'm single i'm practically invisible, then when i'm in a relationship i practically have to beat people off with a stick. i think it's a power thing. they know you can't do anything but they wanna see if they're hot enough to make you stray. resist their charms!
thanks i now do see both sides but i love my gf to much to take a risk on someone thats just going to be a one night stand really. thanks guys! lv HIPPIESTICK
I think that it partly comes from the fact that when you are with some one you are generally happier & it shows. Especially if you are weak in the knees in love. It gives you an extra glow & you may be acting sexier too.
I think both of your replies totally hit it on the head. I couldn't agree more and it seems the same way for me. Although I have never been with another guy. When I was dating girls they always seemed to flock to me, just to see what they could have or not have. It is a power thing. Plus content with one's self really shows to other people. My current prospect makes me feel like a million bucks when I'm around him. I feel so alive inside. Even though we are not "together" I still feel great with him. I'll turn him soon Good Luck and in the words of every great philosopher. Don't surrender love to lust.
