im currently seeing this extremely georgous girl, and for me to say shes georgous shes gotta have somethin (im really picky). i really LIKE her alot and from what i hear from her and other people she really likes me back,buuutttt we have absolutely nothing in common. Im the kinda person that likes to spend alot of time 1 on 1, and shes the kinda person that invites me to hang out w/ her and all of her friends. it just seems like its more disapointment for me than anything. i know that were both really physically attracted to eachother but we just cant click mentaly. were were dating b4 this and i broke up with her for the same reason, yet for some reason im back with here in the same situation... ive been meaning to talk to her and tell her that i need to spend more time w/ her or else its gotta end. should i just stay with here and give her another chance, or do u think ive given her enough chances and i should eidn it (again)...i would grately appreciate any advice that you all have to give. thanks
aite m8 my advice to u is 2 ask yourself if your in in just 4 da sex cause w/out being rude it looks like it is just 4 dat!! but hey what dop i know i'm a 16 y/o who loves pussy lol
The best advice I've ever given is: never take advice from a 16 year old who uses numbers instead of letters and thinks that "lol" is valid punctuation. Anyway, I think that you don't have to be the same, but you have to have some sort of chemistry together. And to find out, you just have to try it. So, if you tried and it's not working, it's not meant to be. Not because you're different, but just because you don't match.
IMHO, an ex is an ex for a reason. What was the reason you broke up with her the first time? You're 16, don't wrap yourself around someone yet. Get out there, explore...opposites tend to attract but that doesn't mean that it will work out. I dated guys that were the opposite of me and it just got annoying...because you simply cannot relate to some people. I think this is probably the situation with you.
it's OK to want someone just for their body, you don't have to get into a relationship with them. you could just "consumate" the friendship and move on, or you could both agree to be friends with benefits. f*** buddies. i hope that helped in your decision-making process.
When my boyfriend and I started dating that is how it was. We were really physically attracted to each other, but had nothing in common and had a hard time connecting mentally. But we decided to keep trying and both made an effort to connect. Now it is 9 months later and we are very happy. Sometimes you can work together to make it work, but it takes effort and may not be worth it. And the two of you may just never mentally click. In my opinion, it could really go either way. But you are younger than me, and it perservering may not be the right thing for you to do. But I would definitely talk to the girl about what you are feeling. That is the most important thing.
so you're currently dating her why? Because she's beautiful? plenty of other fish who are both beautiful and compatible with you.
The reason why i broke up with her the first time was due to a lack of commitment on her part. im just the kind of person that requires alot of attention, i mean they dont need to hang out w/ me 24/7 but at least once or twice a week, i dont think that is too unreasonable...Shes jus always busy, consittering shes a tri-athelete, and she never makes time for me. I hope i dont sound too demanding or self centered. also, whenever we talk it never about anything important, and when ever i try to bring up something deep she just says something like "i dunno" and it ends right there. i need someone that i can have a good, meaningful conversation with, instead of just talking about sports and gossip. it just gets old really quick. sorry about all of my rambling, i hope that gave you a good idea of why i broke up w/ her
My little sister is about your age, and she has the same problem... except she is the good looking athlete dating the good looking sensitive "emo" guy (emo is her word.. I am too old to use said term without looking like an idiot.) She is always busy, and he always calls her complaining about it. I asked her why she doesn't break up with him and her reply is always "he's good looking, and there is no one else as good looking". What am I getting at? Ever stop to think that she is only with you for the same reasons you are with her? You said that she is always busy, and when you do see her it's always with her friends. Doesn't sound like you are all that high up on her list, does it? If you don't click with her mentally, why are you sweating it anyway? Enjoy what you have. If you can't enjoy it, leave it. Make a choice and then do it.
<snippage> If you are interested in making it work, then you need to sit down with her and have a heart-to-heart. Let her know what you need. Let her know how you feel. Perhaps you two aren't a good match. No harm there, no fault, it's just the way it is... But don't assume that she knows what you want/need, unless you tell her. She might think things are fine between you. You need to let her know that you are unhappy and give her a chance to change things. Good luck!
If you're planning on posting some more here don't write as if you are a brain dead dumbass with epilepsy. 2 4 y/o are not words you fucking ****.
