Alright, so, I am bi. I have a girlfriend right now, whom I love dearly, and we've gone out for nearly a year (I am a freshman in highschool). I came out as being bi a couple months ago, and now, I am feeling more and more curious to explore my sexuality, or in other words, try new things, which pretty much means- with GUYS. I just had my first experience with a guy the other day,a nd my girlfirned knows about it- I asked her if I could do something with a certain guy, and she said yes- but I sort of feel bound to chains...I just want to be free to explore my sexuality, and get to know myself better, but that isn't possible with having a girlfriend really. I have expressed to her that the reason I wanted to make out with the guy the other night was because I was curious, and tried to get hte idea across to her that I was curious, but something with her just wasn't clicking... are any of you able to better explain what I was trying to tel her? If you think you understand me, then please tell me...and what should I tell her, and or what should I do? I love our relationship, and I love her, but I want to explore right now as well... Thanks
your girlfriend is pretty cool for letting you experiment with that guy why not propose a menage a trois..so she could date two guys
If you really still feel chained to a relationship to a girl who is letting you explore your sexuality, then maybe you should call things off with the girl. As much as you say you love your relationship, you still don't seem happy about it. Possibly you two can be friends so you can feel at ease when you explore your sexuality with other guys.
Thanks...I guess the main reason I am worried is because I lvoe our relationship, and I am someone who finds it irritating when one doesnt appreciate what they have...and sometimes I fear that I am not appreciating the relationship that I have with her. And sometimes I feel like even thinking of breaking up to explore woudl make me be some horny fuck...and I dont wanna be a horny fuck.
murry? you have a boyfriend!! i thought anyway... what if whats his name sees that post? or are yall not really talking anymore? .... i read that and then i looked at the name and i was like murray!! lol well yeah .... and how would you kno if you were good at sex or not? lol arent you a virgin...(being with a guy... i dont kno if you have been with a girl or not) well thought i would get that out lol please reply you have some questions to answer lol talk with you later!
I Wish I New Wot To Say To You. As I Am 36 Been Mared For 13 Yers But Thats Comeing To End Now. At Your Age All New About Was That Some Pep Wer Gay And Some Wer Str8t. I Did Not Know That Some Peps Went Both Way's. That's Me I Did Not Undersand That I Fellt Diffrent To My Str8t Mates Untill I Fond My Self Vere Turnd On From Kissing A Guy That Did Notwont To Say No To. So Good Luck With Wich Way You Decide To Go You Dont Have Deel With Evre One You Know Thinking Your Str8t As I Do I Hope That Help's Love Lostboy
yeah i am not a virgin, and i really dont like talking about that kind of stuff so yeah! its very uncomfortable for me i only tell the person i am with what i have done so dont feel left out! love ya hun, and me and trent are in open thing until i tell him if i want more, and do you really think someone can love someone else that quickly?
If you love your girlfriend and want to keep the relationship you have with her now, pass up the temptation. There'll probably be time later on down the road for you to explore.
you know... kudos to you for wanting to experiment in high school...so young. and such. and im very happy you havent really encountered any predjudice. very very glad. your girlfriend, also awesome for her! im very proud of you. and you should experiment, be happy...be curious. im rambling and not making much sense. but kudos!!! im very open in all of my relationships. i have several right now. now, they might not be as open as i am...BUT, whatever. i do allow people to put the lesbian label on me...but, in all honesty, im falling for a guy pretty fucking hard. dont limit yourself. that is what ive been TRYING to get out this wholetime. dont limit yourself with a label so soon. damn, sorry it took so long to get that out
I vote experiment! Make sure shes ok, like have a proper good conversation with her about it and stuff. Maybe bring up the idea of a 3some if youre into that, cause its a good opening into your experimenting without her..
