All my life, I've felt mostly submissive, and had fantasies as such, but it's kind of hard to find a girl who can really be dominant. I have had to learn to be dominant, and I do enjoy it. I would say I am "switch," but if possible I want to be dominated. That desire kind of goes hand-in-hand with having a foot fetish as I do. (It's generally considered to be kind of submissive to suck a girl's toes, y'know? Even though it isn't always like that. I've taken charge to do it, too.) -Jeffrey
It depends on who I am having sex with. If I'm with an older person then I'm submissive. If I am with a younger person than I am dominant.
I think it's fun to change it up, there are nights I want my man so bad, that I'm really agressive and dominate but then there are nights I just want him to grab me, throw me on the bed and take control. plus I think he loves it when I dominate him.
Submissive works for me, although I suppose I could be dominate if I was really comfortable with the situation. Never a dominatrix though, that's a huuuuuge turn off for me.