Hi, I have a foot fetish and I'm a bit embarrassed to talk about it. I'm just curious to know how many other people out there are like me, is this sort of thing common? Or is it strange and am I weird? I'm too worried to find out what my girlfriend will think if I tell her. And what should I do if she doesn't to work with me on this... Are there any girls out there who can help me from a girls perspective? Or any guys with the same fetish who can tell me what they do about it.
Lol, im in the same boat but everyone has there own turn on's...mine just happens to be good looking female feet =P I think its normal. Although for some reason my sister hates feet...hmm wierd..
Hi, lorence. I am a guy who has a foot fetish -- a really strong one. I'm crazy about girls' feet. Love to play with them, lick them, suck them, smell them... I won't say that I talk openly about it all day long, but I was definitely like you way back when -- plenty embarrassed to have it known, so I kept it a secret. I was conscious, as you are, of the fact that society in general regards the feet as offal, refuse, a part not to be enjoyed. I think it's mostly because feet get smelly from being in shoes all the time. They get that way from the bacterial digestion that occurs in dark, damp places. The bacteria actually are eating your dead skin! Their waste products are what makes that "foot smell"! Anyway, I digress. I have found (at my age, 33) that many times women are open to all sorts of things, foreplay and sex-wise. Not everyone has the same tastes. But if you don't shock a girl with your foot fetish, but instead work it in gradually, like with a foot massage while you're watching a movie on the couch, you can help her enjoy having you "do" her feet. I have used that approach. I have also used the approach of, we're already getting kind of into foreplay and sex, and I just make a move for her feet and stick her toes into my mouth and suck playfully on them! I've also gotten girls nice and relaxed with a good foot massage (I'm very good, but then, I don't think it's hard to be good at a foot massage. It simply feels so good when someone else is manipulating your feet, almost regardless of how they're doing it! ) and then from there just started to lick and suck their feet! A common reaction is a little bit of surprise, but since lots of girls get a bit turned on if they a) already kinda like you and b) are having part of their body as sensitive as their feet rubbed, they'll go along with whatever continuations feel pleasant. I know from personal experience that having one's toes sucked is very pleasant! I only just noticed, looking back, that you already have a girlfriend. Do you love each other? Or is it one of those "beginning stages" relationships? If you're already a love couple, and/or if you're already sexually active, it should be no big thing to be with her some night, maybe lying side-by-side in bed, and simply tell her that there is something about you, something you don't fully understand about yourself, that you would like to explore with her. Tell her you find yourself very attracted to her feet. (I wouldn't say "feet" in general -- you might as well keep her feeling that this is about her being attractive to you.) You fantasize about massaging them for her, and kissing and sucking on them. You can say that you already know that there are guys around the world who are also this way, and that you know that it is very pleasurable for a girl to have her feet tended to in this way, so that she's not nervous about doing something totally weird. Do you get a feeling from her that she'll be understanding? I mean, what if she wanted to tell you that she wanted you to dominate her during sex? Or she maybe wanted to be spanked? If these were things you didn't necessarily find to be a turn-on, you wouldn't denegrate her and berate her for wanting them, right? You'd discuss it, ask her questions, learn more about how she feels, right? So hopefully she'll be just as understanding. Please get back to us, or PM me if you want to discuss this more. I'm interested to know more about how this goes for you. I hope you have a great experience with it. It can be very rewarding. -Jeffrey
Heh, I don't mean to turn this into a pissing contest, 'cause I consider us all brothers-in-arms... but... do you really think it's tougher being a guy who likes big women (do I take you to mean "fat"?) than it is to be a guy who likes feet?? The way I see it, a girl stands an even chance of being open-minded enough to accept pleasure given to her through her feet; after all, most women will accept you licking their coochies, right? How much weirder, if at all, is it to suck her toes? But there will always be big women -- some might even say that they have a harder time getting dates. You don't have to approach a big woman and say, "I have this thing for big women, like a fetish for them." You just date them. You know what I mean? You just treat them like a person you are interested in. That alone "explains" to them your fetish for big women. You're saying you like big women implicitly simply by expressing your attraction to one! But if you go up to a girl whose feet look absolutely delicious in sandals or maybe she's barefoot, asking her out is not equivalent to telling her you are hot for her feet; you're still gonna have to get around to letting her know that (one way or the other, as I have said already). I would never trade my foot fetish; I love loving feet. But I do admit that it can be hard on a guy at times. You wish you could just have everyone know it, and then the foot-lovin' would just roll in. But you can't play it like that, so it gets frustrating. You have to be discreet about it, and ease into it or you may scare a girl away with it, even though it truly is harmless. The benefit of loving feet, though, is that unlike if you are a total breast or ass man, you can really please a girl through her feet. I mean, sure, you can kiss, lick, suck and fondle a girl's breasts or ass, and she gets some sensual gratification from that, but you can do that only in privacy, generally. If you're an ass man, what can you really do to a girl's butt that is gonna get her all ooey and happy and relaxed and horny? But if you are into her feet, you can definitely get her wet and horny and relaxed (a cool combination of those all at the same time, actually), and not only is it good foreplay, you can give a girl a foot massage virtually anywhere! At the beach, in your car, in a coffee shop... (I've done those.) It's a very versatile fetish, because it is "non-sexual," and because just about everyone enjoys the sensual feeling of having their feet massaged. -Jeffrey -Jeffrey
Thanks Jeffrey. It's always been easy for me to get a girl, but when you suddenly date a girl that's twice the size of girls you used to date my friends just didn't understand. They still don't to this day. I just threw my insecurities to the wind, and went with what felt right.
Thanks, Jeffrey. You sound like you know what your talking about. I've been with my girlfriend just over three years now and we're still as close as ever. All our friends say we're gonna get married some day. I guess your right about her understanding. The thing that keeps me from talking to her about it is; I remember when we first started out, in a movie we were watching this guy started to lick and kiss this women's feet. And my girlfriend said something about not liking that sort of thing. Ever since then I've been paranoid about what she'd think if I was to say something. I'm just stuck on what to do if I say or do something and she doesn't want to work with me. I love her, but I can't just stop liking feet.
