I have a question... Im a Virgo girl, my guy friend im interested in is a Aquarius, Ive looked around about my rising sign, I am told Aquarius, but then I also conflicting results saying Aries, but my best bet would be Aquarius rising...anyway.... quickly I became intrigued by him in every aspect.. his intelligence was the biggest turn on to me, his beauty undefinable, he just makes me feel like so mushy, though i refrain from acting this way sometimes. I met him 2 years ago via internet, he lives 3000 miles away, we're both interested in the same stuff; politics, journalism, world, people, etc we've never met, though we talk about it a lot, and he plans on visiting me soon, over the time period ive known him, hes been a completely puzzling person, one minute telling me he wants me, and missed me and blah blah blah, next minute closing up, making me feel like a dumbass for ever thinking he cared, hes so detached at times, aloof to the core, though he doesnt believe his sign is anything like him, yeah freakin right, its him to a T, i wish i knew his rising sign, it would help let me understand more, he hasnt had a girlfriend in 4 years, i think due in part hes been in school, just finished his degree*hes very smart*, plus he says he can be very shy, and its hard for him to approach girls, which i dont understand sometimes cause i feel like hes a people person, you know, i feel like he has a very unique depth to him, im so curious about him, and i feel like im falling for him. Though our signs have a intelligent match, but not so much romantic, i think its bs...he dated a virgo for 2 years, so that tells you something, I guess... Sometimes I get mad, because I write him these sweet emails at times, and he rarely responds, but when he does he usually types in a friendly friend mode, pisses me off of course, but he usually ends it with something sweet. Im not emotionally demanding, or jealous if he "hooks" up with a girl, though it hurts me, ive told him on occasion, if he ever found a girlfriend, i would be upset, all he seems to say in a simple tone, "why?". sigh, He recently went on a trip, for a month, before his trip, he seemed soooooooooooooooo ALOOF, didnt IM me if i was online, didnt talk much, so i figured ok he doesnt give a damn, we had a convo on the phone that melted my heart, so when he started acting all weird, I just said to myself whatever, and let it go, didnt talk to him, I wrote him one email while he was gone, saying I just wrote to say I had this intense feeling to talk to you, and I miss you. So one day, I go online, to my utter and complete fucking surprise, the jackass wrote me this sweet email: i write you from my hotel in London, i just bought 45 minutes of time for fucking ten pounds ($20), so i could see if you were online but i can't even get onto IM because its blocked here, complete bullshit fucking bullshit. I've been thinking about you all night, and in fact, all this trip. I want you so badly, and I hope you still feel the same way. I MISS you. I feel like you are the only one out there with the balls to give a shit about me, even though you might not even know how I really am, but you still have the wherewithal to go through with my bullshit and actually care about me. I want you. OMG, read this email, and tell me what you think?? do u think hes falling for me? god I sound like a 12 year old! but Im so addicted to him...then a week later, hes online, we talked on the IM for 5 mins then he says oh bye gonna go drive and smoke its spring! sigh...acting like the email wasnt even written... then a week later, i call him, i woke him up lol oh well he got over it, hes sweet, we talked for 2 hours, oh my, i made him laugh a lot, he made me laugh, he said he missed me, and wanted me, and cant wait to see me. I find him beautiful. My question is do think he is falling for me? I can be very patient, obviously, Ive known this walking puzzle for 2 years, how should I approach this situation? it feels like its gotten more serious lately, and its weird but i feel like he sends me these mental signals about how he feels, out of nowhere, I get these intense emotional I want to scream I love you feelings, like when he was gone for a month, i thought he didnt care, but he was thinking about me the whole time i thought he wasnt, ok i could on and on about this, but i wont bore you anymore. PLEASE SEND ME INPUT! thank you !
Why do you people juge people by their signs? Any way I fit aquarius in personality. I really think people with our personality are really just people who dont fit into any other sign so we are very diverse.... but any way if hes like me ( form wich you have described him I gess I do) he is......ok...he wants you....if all people of my personality sign are shy and only people persons for people we really KNOW then yes he dose. We are really thankful for people who do care about us. Ok so yeah he wants you. Then agin Im young so maby my advice is not the best.
love is hard for all signs its a very strange feeling... being an water carries i feel loved and feel i give love but ,then again i am very hard on love..... like alot of people im a very distant person when it comes to feelings and often this seems like the love is not there...from outsiders ie friends family and my leo partner.... all the water carries ive know and have met over my years in this life on earth,have been seen as unloving towards close humans ,{often blown away by life so look so off the planet.} so get this in the kneck.. i suppose if you love and get love back that is the question do you give and recieve love easily? i dont... but i love all life but anyway to be honest all humans fear love at some point or find it hard to give and take love.... lovenpeace from saff ps love..well i will have to think about that.......... little aquarian joke from me...
try not to obsess over peoples star signs, it's only a part of us and we shouldnt be judged by our star signs. he could have all kinds of issues when it comes to relationships from upbringing? being dumped? being scared of rejection? being scared of commitment? who knows. from my experience Aquarians are hard to get close to, they live in their own worlds and thats whats so great about them. I'm a Virgo who recently fell for an Aquarian, I was attracted to her fantastic mind but could never get close to her and it ate me up. Personally I think you need to find someone more loving towards you who's closer to home.
look for someone closer? when you find a strong connection to someone, distance is far from someone's mind, maybe if youve experienced that you'd understand, I know you meant well, but distance is nothing when it comes to a chance of love. Its not really obessessing, I just want to understand him, because I feel If I understood where he was coming from, I could be more patient, and understanding, which I have been this long, I guess having an Aquarius rising helps me understand where he is coming from, I dont know, no one has seemed to help me with this answer, hopefully I can find better guidance from another board, thanks anyways.
hi there you speak of waiting to understand this aqaurian person ,in friendship and love why do you wait go tell all to his ear im sure you may find an answer one way or another. from experience my partner gave out many signals being a leo he shone in front of me,, i never knew until he spoke of the fact i was in his HEART.. then i became aware of his feelings.. this took many moons.. even though he roared with passion into my life then he told me ..... so words need to be spoken i feel, and then acted upon... dont hold back if you would like to understand this man then you need to be more open lovenpeace from saff
I have experienced that sweetheart, I fell for a girl one hundred miles from me a couple of years ago, she called me last week, what a shock, all those feelings flooded back but it seems like it's just not ever going to happen. I so wish it could. She said she'd call me a couple of days later, but she didnt I'm still waiting for her call, yet when we talk it's amazing and I know she feels it too...we'd talk for hours...yet she seems to be distant sometimes. I think it's because she is afraid to get too close to me because I live far away maybe thats why your guy is cold with you? I would do anything to be with her I really would so I feel your pain. But I carry on looking for someone closer to home, what else can I do? I can't keep thinking about her or it'll do my head in big time, if it does happen then it's destiny. I have my moon in Aquarius, it helps me understand Aquarians a bit, but at the end of the day, I'm a Virgo, and they are Aquarians, we are on totally different planets so I could never really be able to put myself in their shoes. Rising signs are a bit weaker imo, mines in Libra, yet I'm still on a different planet to my Libra mother. It's fair to say I've worked her out, but I really don't know what she feels or what goes through her mind all the time. If I did then I would be some god I think you've been well won over by this Aquarian, they make me very curious too, I'd love to know what makes them tick. They must be the hardest of all the star signs to work out. I don't think anyone really can help you with your question, to me he sounds like he's playing you around...and he can do so because he lives far away, he sounds like alot of blokes I know of, treat em mean, keep em keen, but is that what you want to hear? :/ or he is scared of committing or taking it seriously because of the distance. I don't think his star sign really comes into it. You really need to give him an ultimatum, be with me, or I'm going to find someone else. Don't be shy tell it to him how it is. Life is too short to be waiting around for someone who may never come.
why would he play me around when he could easily find another girl closer to him? hes not a sexual fiend, go to club, kinda guy...more few close friends from childhood, quiet evening reading kinda guy...hes a nerd, and I adore him...I dont want to pressure him, I know its easy to say, "find someone closer".. but what if the person you're meant to be with is far away? I cant live my life never knowing... I am a Aquarius Rising, Virgo SUN, ARIES Moon(maybe thats where my determination is coming from), Venus in Leo, etc I dont really want to even think about this anymore, I cant seem to find a solid answer anywhere, thank you for responding Josh-e, you should very kind, and my heart also goes out to you....I dont know if you love the girl, but youre giving me advice, about what I should do, But if you love her, shouldn't you say something as well? sigh The best things in life don't come easy!
You place to much inportance on his sign.Rember Astorogy is all just gesses by a few people form the 1st century.Ok any way the guy likes you thats really all you need to know..
aquarians can be a complicated, frustrating lot for most to deal with sometimes. we generally refuse to conform to any set "system".. whether this is the government, or relationships. We like to keep things new, changing... pioneer our own way. Start a revolution. Change the world. However, we can be stubborn to a fault in changing ourselves.. I would say that the star sign has nothing to do with someone's personality, but I know better. I have two close friends who are aquarians like myself and we definitely share similar traits although we come from different backgrounds. In fact I make it a point to learn all my friends and families signs, and even look at their chart sometimes. It's amazing the similarities, synchronicities, and such that surround people of similar signs.. and observing the way certain signs and elements work (or don't work) together.. is an interesting science. Myself, I am Aquarius with Aries rising and moon in Scorpio.. So I have that 'disconnected' and 'passionate' aquarius trait.. with the fire of aries and the depth of emotion with scorpio.. those weepy water signs... When it comes to love, it gets even crazier.. while we may feel completely in love, even infatuated with someone.. somehow we can still manage to appear uncaring, aloof, distant..at times.. while others we can be extremely thoughtful, romantic, and passionate. I know my ex of 5 years (Sag) took a very long time to puzzle me out, and she never quite got the whole picture. Do we love? Absolutely! We love humanity, peace and justice. Our love is not the everyday kind that is so easily given.. but when we open our hearts (which can be quite a task!!) it is an undeniable outpouring of pure emotion. Introspectation is the name of the game (for me at least).. so I will often find myself as the neutral observer in group situations. I am quiet in person, unless I know someone well, or have something to talk about that interests me a great deal. Mundane conversation doesn't cut it. Boring. We need excitement with stability. Paradox is an everyday fact of life for us. Oh and did I mention that for many of us it is very hard to express our feelings? We need to feel completely comfortable with someone... be gentle. But just to give you a heads up. Most aquarians I know (I include myself in this, regrettably..) hate to be "tied down" in a relationship. We feel lonely sometimes, but then when we get into a committed relationship, we want to be single again.. we want to have options.. we don't want to have to commit. We like new things... hate repetition... so keep it fresh, and you will keep him interested Interesting that you are a Virgo, as I've been meeting quite a few of you lately. I'm not quite sure what to make of it just yet. Most seem very down to earth.. if a bit cynical at times..(hey can't we all be?) But this Virgo-Aquarius relationship is a relatively new one to me, so I'm still figuring things out myself. Virgo is an Earth sign and Aquarius is Air.. (yes AIR, not water.. we may be the water-bearer but we are an air sign) not exactly the symbiotic opposites (fire-air... earth-water) but one of my best friends is an Earth sign (capricorn). I can tell you this - be honest with him about your feelings. He will take them as he may. However some of us are hard to tie down... You can't put us in a box, not without some serious dissent and a good fight. The best way to deal with us (based on my personal experiences and my observations from other aqaurius relationships) is to love freely, without attaching standards, or "rules" to us. We hate to be controlled..or expected to follow a set system. If the parties in question can love in mutual harmony and respect for one anothers free will (make sure that it IS mutual.. we can be hypocrites if you let us get away with it) - then it will work out just fine. but the main point is to just be yourself. Don't come off as desperate or needy and dont try 'own' someone. we get scared away easily by such things. We enjoy natural harmonic relationships.. those that simply flow of their own accord. Make your intentions and feelings known.. but don't push it.. don't play head games. Just be.. and allow him/her to be. And then you can just be together, and everyone is happy. No one feels responsible for the other... alienated.. dependent.. or any of those negative things. We are just content within ourselves.. happy to share experiences with another sovereign being. Then the happiness flows like a river. Peace and Clean Vibes
