I need a virtual shoulder to cry on tonight. My 1st Son of nearly two years old died a couple of years ago and I am just missing him ever so desperately tonight. Just that little bit more than normal. (what ever is ment to be a normal amount anyway I have no idea....) I don't wish to talk about it as such, so don't worry about not knowing what to say, I know it's hard for people to know what to say to me about this sometimes, just please lend me a shoulder to quietly cry on? Stasia XXX
Lean on me when youre not strong and Ill be your freiend. Ill help you carry on. For, it wont be long til im gonna need somebody to lean on.... Isnt there anyone not virtual thatg can comfort you?
ill keep you in my prayers sweetie something that always helps me when dealing with death (none as close as yours though, so i may be speaking ignorantly..if so i apologize) is if you think about it, nothing can ever die. we are all made up of matter and electricity, both of which cannot be gained or lost. everything on this planet is made up of the same basic atoms, everything is linked. your son is here, just in a different form. his spirit, his aura are still in the air you breathe. you will meet again in whatever/wherever death is, in whatever form you both share. keep your head up...the sun's always there even if the clouds are hiding it
I assure you, myself and others are thinking of you and your son tonight. Both your candles are burning in this corner of the world.
Stasia, You can feel free to lean on me. Seems as though we both lost our first born son. Although I lost Michael 23 years ago there is still an ache of lose there in my heart. As mothers we will always feel sadness at the absence of our children in our lives. I believe that they are never gone from us. Have talked to him when I am feeling the need and this has helped alot. Do this for all who have passed from this physical plain because I believe that they can still receive our messages from the heart. Please feel free to contact me privately or instant message me if you need a friend. Will send much love and light your way...plus the shoulder.
Thank you all SO much for the lend of your shoulders in my deepest sadness lastnight. You are all living angels. May life be oh, so very, very kind to you all. I am feeling much more 'balanced' and brighter today after having the hardest, longest cry lastnight till the tears literally ran out. Just something I need to do from time to time. Love, peace and empathy to all you sweethearts.
Stasia, Was so glad to read that you were feeling better today! Perhaps the crying helped to cleanse you a bit. Remember the brightest and most beautiful rainbows appear after a storm. Your son will always be your "angel" just as I feel mine is to me. Wishing lots of love and happiness and sending you many "hugs". "Flying Feathers"
Just to let you know darling, I spotted lastnight that you had sent me that email. I hadn't check them in a few days hence why I've only just noticed it but I have now replied to you so you will have an email from me sweetheart. Love, peace and empathy, Stasia X
blessed be to you...my the god and goddess shine down on you and yours.... P.S here is a kitty to hug =^.^=...smile its good for you
Thank you so much. That was awfully sweet of you! Worked too, did make me smile. You are of course very right about smilling, so with that in mind I DO try to spend as much of my life smilling as I can, as you say they are good for the soul. Infectious too! So if smilling were to spead, I couldn't say I'd be too upset with that! We are all guilty of not smilling enough, I think.
