Why do you date?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by headymoechick, Apr 14, 2005.

  1. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    What drives you to date?

    Do you enjoy going out and having fun?

    Or are you always looking for the "one"?

    If you can't see yourself with someone for a long time, is it worth it to you?

    or do you not take dating so seriously?

    comment!
     
  2. Super_Grrl

    Super_Grrl Crazy love

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    Sometimes any of them lol I've dated guys because I thought they were fun, nothing serious or future-related. Now I'm with someone I can see myself with for the rest of my life - he's both fun AND serious! Actually when I met him I *wasn't dating* for a while lol so I wasn't driven to date him in that sense. Sometimes you just can't avoid it. But I have some friends who *have to* have a boyfriend or else they feel utterly worthless and sad...it's awful.
     
  3. Faerie

    Faerie Peachy

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    I dont really "Date" I hang out with guys and If it becomes something it does.. If it doesn't whatever... I think i have gone on a total of like 2 "dates" I just seem to fall into relationships....
     
  4. walkoflife

    walkoflife Some Assembly Required

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    Me, too...most of my relationships are a result of attraction, a few conversations, maybe some partying...
     
  5. Elle

    Elle Senior Member

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    Same here
     
  6. Small_Brown

    Small_Brown Senior Member

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    I don't date. I swore off women to pursue my education and career goals...even when I'm 40 or 50 years old I still see myself single, living alone. No dating for me!:)
     
  7. JohnnyATL

    JohnnyATL Banned

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    i date all the time mainly for fun cause I date a couple girls at a time...but dont tell them
     
  8. BanditQueen

    BanditQueen Member

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    I dont date unless I feel something for the person. I usually know straightaway whether I'm into them or not. Its not based on looks - just intuition. If I dont feel anything, I dont go out. Ive learned from experience that it isnt going to work.
     
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