Suck. Sorry about the negativity...I am just really frustrated at them right now... My friends are so wrapped up in their own little world...they hate socialising with other people, they criticise others even if they don't know them...their no where near compassionate....and their just so annoying!!!! Ahhhh! I have one or two friends that I trust and love.....but most of them are selfish spiteful little *%^#! Anyone else feel negative about their friends ALOT???!
you've described my sister to a tee. Sometimes i dont know what to do with her. she's depressed with her life, but her negative outlook just makes everything worse. I think she's created this negative vicious circle for herself. You cant get through to some people. I also have friends who are very negative and critical, but I avoid them like the plague
Consider yourself lucky to have a few really quality friends. I've found that most of my "friends" in life ebb and flow with the circumstance; however, you will always have a precious few. You'll learn that in life(and especially at your age)pettiness is a huge problem. People often lack the maturity to live and let live and love. Peace
You may find that people around you act as clearer mirrors than glass ones. I'm discovering that people who annoy me are the ones that reflect a part of me that I don't like. You seem them as negative and compassionless, yet where is the compassion in that? Perhaps they're feeling insecure and therefore defensive about it. If they're critisizing other people it's because they critisize themselves just as much or more. I'm not saying you're compassionless or negative, but if you're open-minded check it out. Take that critisism of them, and find it in yourself--then laugh at it! Love those poor, insecure friends of yours and have faith that they'll find their way out of it.
