No Communication... Some advice.Please

My GF and I don't talk much anymore. If we talk it usually leads to arguing, we don't even have much sex anymore. My gf is my bestfriend and I can't even talk to her without her getting upset, we use to talk for hours and now we hardly talk. She mostly talks to the girls online. I know she not cheating on my besides being online, we spend 24/7 with each other. Which to her is a big burdan, I think, so I mostly spend time by myself. And theirs this girl that usually she talks to that I think, this girl likes my gf because she gives kissess and calles a few uncomfortable names and when I ask my gf she gets really pissed of and everything. I wish they stop talking like that. No one respects a relationship these days. I just donno what to do? How do I talk to her with out her getiing pissed off?

 

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Well, I'm in a relationship where I am the restless one. I feel attracted to other people, flirt a little bit, although nothing that I wouldn't do or say right in front of him and nothing that would make him uncomfortable. It's because I'm 19 and we've been together for 2 1/2 years. We spend WAY too much time together. Everything was so serious!

So we took a step back. I have my own bedroom, we both go out wihtout each other most nights, and we miss each other a lot. we value the time we spend together more. And now, since things aren't so serious, we don't get mad at each other as much.

All I can advise in my experience is that when you really love someone, it's easy to get carried away and spend all your time and thoughts in the other person. Things work much smoother when you focus on yourself more and try to be the best person you can. You bring about a different reaction when you change the stimulus.