I now realize that I have shot my mouth off one time too many, and I don't think I am making a positive contribution to this board. Therefore, I will be returning to "silent" status. The thread where I mentioned I might kill myself was not intended just to grab attention - I was serious, and the thoughts still cross my mind frequently. That was not the point of the thread anyway. I am sorry if I have offended anyone. I am also becoming increasingly disappointed with the leadership of this site. I think Holly has ruined the Bare It forum - it makes no sense to censor Jess's site, which contains nothing objectionable, while allowing someone else to post a link to a pay site that contains photographs of naked children. I had thought she was my friend, but she also offended me on a personal level. I will not disrespect her by posting the specifics publicly.
This is silly, do you contribute money to or own this site? well than go and build a site, than you can play god with it.
Threads: 80,601, Posts: 1,155,260, Members: 19,384 + 1,406,110 archived posts in 117,206 threads, by 49,481 other members. This is a large site, lottsa poeple and as with any large group theres some you will love, some yah hate, some that will stab you in the heart and back..some that have a bad day,some that will misinterpret you and your motives..the list goes on and on. We have leaders? I was never too hot at follow the leader, hehe. If you have a problem with a forum guy...especially what you referred to, there is a moderator. PM the mod! Nobody I know of around here would have anything to do with child porn. PM the mod and the link to the thread.... and don't stand around and bitch about leadership if you aren't willing yourself to stand up and be counted.
I haven't read any of your posts, but if you think that you aren't making a positive contribution, it isn't too late to change your frame of mind. Most people on this board are pretty forgiving, if you openly recognize your mistake. Although I have to say, it really isn't up to you how this site is run. It is a free speech site, and you have the right to disagree with our moderators and make suggestions, but you'll probably just have to deal with it if they don't use your information. That's no reason to leave, though. As for posts about killing yourself, I've seen plenty of them on this site. Most people will take it as an attention ploy, as serious as you may be... Because any threat of suicide is actually a cry for help - If the suicidal person really wanted to choose death, they would have done so without calling attention to themselves first. Not to encourage you to kill yourself, of course... I just want you to rethink your method, that's all. I'm actually a pretty nice girl. PM me if you need to talk to someone, but ending your life is never the answer... In Love and Light, Hippie L.
