Hey im thinking about doing extasy for the first time but im not sure. Id be doing it with my girlfriend who has done it alot before and i wanted just to stay at home me and her for the first time. She said she doesnt want me to see her like that in that situation which is weird to me any reasons why somone wouldnt like that?. She wants to go to a rave and said ill probably be just touching people and making out with her all night and dancing. My question is will i do something i regret? or like if she does something like making out with another guy how will it affect me after. She says during it i wont care but i dont want it to be weird after if we like mess around with others at the time and then come down. Will this happen can i control it pretty well? and any other advice you can give me is helpful.
talk to her about it before hand- its really hard to control- but dont worry ab it just have a good time and whatver happens happens and tell her before hand that yall arent going to get mad ab anything- the reason she prob didnt want to do it alone is bc the time passes slowly and yall are going to be reallly horny (one reason to do it alone) but it is still a really social drug- plus youll love being around the music- have fun!!
First of all: normally, you cannot completely lose control on E! Even if you´ll feel more positive towards activities you normally don´t like, you´ll never do anything under E that you´re normally totally against. The stories of people raped while under E are myths! But for your first time you should definitely stay at home. And you should have someone around who´s familiar with E (which means that he´s done it at least once) and stays sober - your personal "sitter". Going to a rave under E is almost suicidal (even if thousands of people do it). Look: under E, your pulse (without activity!) will rise above 120/min., your blood pressure (also without activity) will rise up to 220/150 mmHg, and your body temperature easily reaches 39°C. And then you want to go dancing? Forget it! One big problem with E is, that you don´t feel any pain and don´t become tired for hours. That means, that your complete body alarm system is out of order, while you´re under E. And you´ll lose lots of water (even without activity, 2 liters are quite normal), so don´t forget to drink very much (at least 1 liter of water per hour). Once again: stay home for your first time on E. Listen to music, look at interesting pictures, and let your sitter do the rest for you. Have fun - and play safe!
i don't think it's really necessary to just sit and home. E is very social and uplifting, so i'd suggest going and doing small, comfortable activities your first time. go for walks, explore your back yard, listen to music, dance, etc. do drink plenty of water! but not too much, you don't want to overhydrate either.
