GIRLS: 5 things you look for in a guy and 5 to avoid

i would like to know what girls look for in a guy... here ill start it off...

GOOD:
hands
intelligence
playful personality
caring
protectiveness

AVOID:
dull guys
too serious
ones that dont give a shit about what i do
extremly clean guys
ones with no body hair

 

I is a gayer, but thought I'd post here instead.

Good:
Nice eyes - Can't really explain it, but there's so much that can be wrong with someone's eyes, whereas some guys can just own you with them.
Tidy body - nothing fancy, just somewhere well clear of Fat and Ribby. Chunky arms and chest are always appreciated.
Freedom - the exact right point between "horribly needy" and "doesn't return your calls".
Non-sex - willingness to lie around watching a movie or something without random groping behaviour having to occur.
Sex - Self-explanatory

Avoid:
Low self esteem - you start out thinking "great, I can make less of an effort", but it's really not worth it when you're trying to get rid of them. A modest ego is a good thing.
Boring conversationalist - hard to define, but conversation is what makes it a relationship, otherwise you could be his right hand.
Taste/Smell - if someone smells of moisteuriser and tastes of chewing gum when you kiss them, they can fuck right away.
Male nurses/care workers/counsellors - self explanatory.

 

Good:
Intelligence
humor
good taste in music
knows and cares about whats going on in the world
knows what he wants out of life

Avoid:
Guys who have no interest in me
Guys that don't have anything to say
low self esteem
really fat men

 

good-deep eyes-you know the kind where someone looks like they can see right through you
intelect
caring
kind
funny
avoid-unfair
selfishness
irresponsibility
guys who dont put any effort in
passive agessivness argh men dont realize how obvious it is and how apathetic it makes me

 

Hey! What's wrong with male nurses?

 

What I look for:

Smiling Eyes
An appreciation for music
Intelligence (a bit brighter than me in some areas but not quite there on others...)
An incredible sense of humour (quotes comedy and always laughs)
Cuddly and always open for hugging and holding hands

Things I tend to avoid:

Vacant "I drink every weekend" look
Preppy dress
Listens to angry music
A close-minded person
Someone who is not in touch with their emotions...

 

Good:
being able to do nothing for a while
interested in what's going on around him
confident
has a beard (woo, shallow one)
and, like consolidated said, knows what he wants out of life

Bad:
closed-minded
macho guy
short 'n skinny (an other shallow one!)
smelly
not being able to make up his mind about random stuff

 

It's like going out with your gran, that's what's wrong with them.

 

look for
humerous
understanding
romantic
fun
sexualy fun

avoid
posessive
egotistical
immature
abusive
s.t.d.'d

 

1. wisdom, intelligence, intuitive!
2. looks- beautiful eyes and a teddy bear body-preferable, not a must. I;ve dated skinny guys too.
3. humor and witt!!
4. able to have an amusing time, even when we're doing nothing
5. adventurous and wordly.... or, well, someone who justs wants to have fun and isn't out to prove anything! : )

things I avoid
-The type of guys who think they're so controversial and philosiphical, like when you're sitting around, drinking with friends, and they want to talk about the war in iraq... I mean, you can talk abouit, or you can get into a full-on heated discussion, and when you're kicking back with friends, it's just not the great place. It's hard to find an intelligent, intuitive guy that doesn;t try to prove to the world that he's got brain power. Sorry.. I just get URKED!
-selfish/spoiled
-prettier than me (& worried about looks)
-intolerance of other views, cultures
-chases me! A little chase, a little hard to get... I hate that guys dont pursue girls as much anymore!...but then again, I dont want a stalker

 

hmmm...
well im with you on the nice hands,bugsangel,...y'know, well kept,no chewed nails...

make me laugh and not mind taking the piss outta himself, someone who is spontaneous- i hate guys who wont do something silly just b coz they're scared wat people'll hink of them.

i need a really huggy guy, someone who loves hugs, with everyone not just me...

however, i think i differ from you folks wen i say i like my men to look a bit grubby, not too clean cut,i prefere long hair/stubble etc...

someone who understands comfortable silences and quality time with yourself

i think its important to hav a few brain cells and be able to learn from eachother but i hate it wen they take themselves too seriously...or wen they try to psychoanalyse you...
GOD i sound picky!!!!well that was slightly long windwinded....sorry


p.s.- self control, who did those surreal sketches? they're fantastic, i could really use something like that to write about for my art project...i need a surreal artist and theyrs only so much you can write about dali! cheers

 

i forgot good hygine thats a must

 

Good:

Intelligent
Attractive (which can cover a broad spectrum)
Independent (like someone said before, between needy and won't return my calls)
Caring
Available (emotionally and time)

Bad:

Abusive
Vain/spends more time getting ready in the morning than I do
Low self-esteem/needs to be coddled
Wants me to be the pants of the relationship
Has no interests in common with mine (ie nothing to talk about with 'em)

 

Good:
intelligent/ good conversationalist- I like someone who I can talk to about their philosophies on life, love, religion, and politics for hours without being bored

affectionate- Can hug and cuddle without it turning into a gropefest all the time.

similar interests- self explanitory

ambitious- Knows what he wants in life and knows how to get it, which includes college as a must

comfortable- Doesn't mind being a goof around me, even if he may be painfully shy to everyone else.



Bad:

muscularness- If he looks like he just came from a bodybuilding competition with veins popping out everywhere then I'll have no part in that... I like chubby guys or skinny guys.

bad hygene- Must brush teeth, floss, and shower every day.

meglomaniac- The world can't start and end at him.

disliking kids and animals- Self explanitory... I love kids and animals and would never get along with someone who didn't.

no college- VEEEEEEERY unattractive to me is a guy who didn't go or doesn't have plans to go to college... not that you can't be intelligent without going to college, but it's a must for me.

 

Things that are good:

1. Intelligence (but not the arrogant kind...just the ability to converse intelligently)
2. Humour
3. Respectful
4. Strong/muscular arms & shoulders (we're allowed one shallow thing, right?)
5. Patience

Avoid
1. Manipulators
2. Liars/cheaters
3. Inability to commit
4. Abusive
5. Too much body hair (like a unibrow, or a chest-sweater)

 

Oops, posted in the wrong thread and don't know how to delete it.

 

Shit, I posted in the wrong thread.

 

Whats so bad about extremely clean guys? Just because I like everything in order doesn't make me a bad person. I just like to know where things are all the time. You don't wanna see my room/house! SPOTLESS.

 

I like hands too.

 

What I look for:

Loves to cuddle
Long hair
Nice fit body and is regularily active
Connections
Intelligent personality, listens well
Interest in music
Able to sit there and talk very down to earth about anything
Good awareness level
Patience
Honesty
Good hygiene
Qualities I admire and wish I had
Shows interest in me
Tells me how it is and what he wants
Caring and Kind

Things I tend to avoid:

Alcoholic or asshole type
Flirts with many woman
Fights alot
Overweight
Dresses badly
Peircings in face
Stupidity
Blunt hatred
No goals in life
Depression

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