5 things you look for in a woman and 5 to avoid

Alright Guys... I NEED YOUR HELP. This is for a Relationships project that I am currently tangled up in involving dating. Here's the thing. I have to ask several members of the opposite sex (male, sorry just clearing it up) to list five things that they like in a woman and five things that they don't like. so Here we go. LIST FIVE THINGS THAT YOU LOOK FOR IN A WOMAN AND FIVE THINGS YOU WOULD RATHER AVOID. Annnnnd GO.

 

what about same sex couples? Dont they count?

 

ok.
Good=
Ass
Tits
Personality
Intelligence
Sexy.

Bad:
Bitchiness
Overweight
Yuppie
A girl who thinks she can whoop everyones ass.
Drinks more than I do.

 

couldnt have said it better- all though tits and ass are useless if shes not a good lay.

 

umm alright this isn't quite working the way I thought it would. Nothing against same sex couples what so ever. It's just this part of the assignment is supposed to be from guys. But hey, if you want to answer, I love to get a girls perspective on what they look for in a girl. Anyway. Let's try not to be super shallow here either.

 

Look for:

-never losing sense of humor no matter how bad shit is-
-outspoken-
-confident-
-very playful-
-faithfulness-

Avoid:

-crack addicts-
-money hungry-
-conservative attitude-
-underweight-
-not on any depression meds-*


*important

 

5 THINGS I LOOK FOR...

confident
ambitious
attractive
crazy
likes Star Trek

5 THINGS I AVOID...
confident
ambitious
attractive
crazy
likes Star Trek

 

Avoid:

1. gold diggers
2. soccer moms/socialites/yuppies
3. alcohol/substance abusers
4. fitness/non-smoking freaks
5. those w/excessive excess baggage

Bonus - 6. obesity/elusive 9+ (the Perfect Ten does not exist in R/L)


Desired:
Anything not in the Avoid category.

Seriously, in no specific order:

Ability to give and receive
Faithfulness/Devotion
Honesty
Intelligence/Snap
The Desire/Need to "explore strange new worlds. To seek out new life and new civilizations. To boldly go where no man has gone before."

 

I is a same sexer, already posted this in the other thread but will put it here too. I guess most of this would apply to girls, I dunno, I don't know what you breeders get up to. Depending on whether you want to know what men find attractive, or what is attractive about women, this may be completely useless.

I is a gayer, but thought I'd post here instead.



Good:

Nice eyes - Can't really explain it, but there's so much that can be wrong with someone's eyes, whereas some guys can just own you with them.

Tidy body - nothing fancy, just somewhere well clear of Fat and Ribby. Chunky arms and chest are always appreciated.

Freedom - the exact right point between "horribly needy" and "doesn't return your calls".

Non-sex - willingness to lie around watching a movie or something without random groping behaviour having to occur.

Sex - Self-explanatory



Avoid:

Low self esteem - you start out thinking "great, I can make less of an effort", but it's really not worth it when you're trying to get rid of them. A modest ego is a good thing.

Boring conversationalist - hard to define, but conversation is what makes it a relationship, otherwise you could be his right hand.

Taste/Smell - if someone smells of moisteuriser and tastes of chewing gum when you kiss them, they can fuck right away.

Male nurses/care workers/counsellors - self explanatory.

There's quite a lot I avoid, so I tried to go for big ones and couldn't think of another one.

 

Look for:

Intelligent
Well Mannered
Goofy
Physically: well kept & clean - they don't have to be 'fit', but I don't care for women who 'let themselves go' and stop caring about their appearance
Sexually: sweet & loving first, but also slightly adventurous (not too freaky though)

Avoid:

Materialistic
Loud
Passive Aggresiveness
Selfishness
Narcisistic

 

Gee, the things i love for a girl,

1) Sense of Self:
Girl needs to know who she is, and appericate the person she is and doesn't try to be like everyone else.
2) Personiality
She really needs to have somethings about her that are common to who i am, and some things opposite and things i wish i could be.
3) Best Friend/ Soul Sister
I guess that feeling that you have a deep deep connection with her already, without intent of sex, before I even think about bringing it to the next level of love.
4) Open Minded
Open to try new and diffrent experiences, maybe things that might go past the comfort levels a bit. (Nothing too big though)
5) Artistic Edge
She has to be able to create something, weither it be music, art, or poetry. I belive that share an artistic vibe is very imporant.

Five things i don't like.
1) Washed up in coporate society
2) Low Self Confidence
3) Hard to get close to/too horny
4) not spontantous
5) Not a Free Sprit.

If you fit the bill, ladies let me know, lol

 

That's odd. I'd think a horny person would be easier to get close to...

 

aww i love star treck

 

i like your list

 

Well, if you were to ask me for the five most important things then I would give you five physical things, since I would always start any relationship based on looks, which are immediate, and then naturally get to know her personality once we've got to know each other.

My top 14 physical characteristics of a woman, in order:

1. Nice smile
2. Petite
3. Nice voice (difficult to describe)
4. Thin hands and wrists
5. Clear skin
6. Well dressed (I like smartly dressed, and also soft clothes)
7. Nice eyes
8. Good hair
9. Long eyelashes
10. Pale skin
11. Dark eyes
12. Breasts size C or smaller
13. Dark hair

Then as for personality, I would like the following things (in no particular order):

PERSONALITY
I want a woman who is warm, friendly and fun. A woman who smiles and laughs a lot. A woman who can see the humour in anything, who doesn't take anything too seriously and isn't too wrapped up in what other people think of her. I'd like a woman who is fun to be around in any situation. A woman who could make me laugh would be fantastic.

ANGER
I really like cool, calm women who are just totally laid back and never let anything bother them. I don't like feisty women who lose their temper all the time.

STRENGTH
I want a strong, independent woman. A woman with self respect, who has her own opinions and isn't afraid to express them. But not someone who is bossy, stubborn, selfish or manipulative.

INTELLIGENCE
I need a woman who is intelligent. Someone who can have an intellectual conversation, philosophise, or understand clever jokes. Literacy is fairly important to me, too. I don't think I could bear to have a woman who spoke in slang or said "da" instead of "the" (which rules out most British women!).

PRIORITIES
I don't want a woman who is pretentious, or obsessed with image, money or status. I want someone who is humble and seeks to lead an enlightened life; someone caring, compassionate and charitable, who puts her family before anything else.

LIFESTYLE
I like sensible women who behave responsibly and don't squander money. I like ambitious women who have goals they set to achieve and want to make the most with their life. I want a woman who looks after her health, eats well and keeps clean. I don't really want a heavy boozer, and I would never want a woman who smoked (mainly because of what it says about her attitude).

INTERESTS
Ideally, we'd have at least one common interest, but I'd like her to have some different interests so that she can teach me about them.

ATTITUDE TO ME
I want a woman who loves me for whom I am, respects me, appreciates me, values my opinion, trusts me, doesn't keep secrets from me, and is loyal to me. It would also be great if she also found me attractive, found me funny, and appreciated the things I did for her.

PHYSICALITY
I want a woman who is physical. A woman who wants to touch and likes being touched both in public and in private. A woman who wants lots of sex and is kinky too. A woman who is not embarassed all the time!

 

I'm in love. And in fear.

 

Avoid


1. Open sores
2. Chest hair
3. An obsession with sharp objects
4. A voice only dogs can hear
5. Women who say things like "I forgot my ATM card, can I use yours?"

 

Innocent,

That's it! You're perfect!

 

Avoid:

Materialistic, Superficial (I hate make up)
A closed mind
Way too needy
Incredibly low self esteem
DRAMA QUEENS!!!

Look for:

An intelligent open mind
An adventurous free spirit
A positive attitude
A good sense of humor
A tad bit odd

It's hard to find what I'm looking for with so many sorority girls running around campus!

 

Dood you need to look beyond that to find the... inner beauty.