Boyfriend must stop

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Tell him to stop. If he doesn't stop, stop going down on him. It obviously makes you uncomfortable, and if he goes too far with it he can make you throw up all over him - probably not something he wants.

if he gets worse after you've told him (repeatedly) to stop... well, you could try bearing down on him with your teeth a little, but I'd use that as more of a last resort, after talking about why it makes you uncomfortable.

 

Yeah, give him a little nip if he doesn't listen. He shouldn't be trying to choke you with his penis! lol or, you could move out of his arm range too, that might work.

 

or just go for it, chuck up in his lap. He deserves it if hes going to be shit like that

 

You could always just handcuff him. That would stop him from pushing you with his hands.

Hehe, seriously though.. if you feel uncomfortable, you definitely have to tell him that and make sure that he really understands it.

 

Bite his dick off if he keeps it up. I love getting blow jobs, but I sure don't do shit like that.

 

It could simply be he wants more pressure, you to go faster or you to go deeper.... explain to him that he needs to verbalize what it is he wants rather than forcing you down like that....if he's not careful you could end up loosing your cookies in his lap...LOL Of course, that might teach him

Lynn

 

Lynn and Ihmurria know what they're talking about.

I can understand a guy lovingly stroking your hair and stuff while you're going down on him, but not forcing your head onto his cock. That's just wrong, disrespectful, and borders on misogynist.

-Jeffrey

 

Squeeze his balls, he'll get the message.

 

i feel as though he is disrespecting you by doing this, all of the comments made on what to do to him should work. communication is the best way to solve these types of problems.

 

Ask him to hold your shoulders, not your head.

 

I would be furious and probably stop giving oral if he couldn't get it through his head that I didn't enjoy that.

Wow... kudos to you for still having oral sex with him when he's being such a bastardface. I couldn't do it myself.

 

nooooo way next time-well actually i would leave him but if there is a nect time get dressed and leave...and leave him hanging

 

Seriously, that is no way to act. Does he think your head is a pocket pussy? If anybody forced my head, I would be scared that they would suffocate me.

Tell him if he wants to jerk off, go for it, but your head is not his fuck toy....

 

Just explain to him that the next time he does that, he'll be able to suck himself off...

After you hand it to him.

 

Just echoing what others have said, but that's a bunch of hateful bullshit. To me, that's grounds to break a relationship up if you've asked nicely and he continues. (I REALLY get pissed off about force.) I'm not comparing it to rape, but I agree with Jeffrey; that's at least a degree of misogyny.

At the very least, there'd be an absence of oral sex for a long time (try a month or two on for size) if he did it just one more time. Biting his dick can be construed as assault, and fuckfaces who act like that are more likely to call the cops over something dumb like that than the rest of the normal men in the world.

 

To soften the overall tone of this, I would like to point out that at that time, your boyfriend is focused on something besides remembering or being subtle. Its just they way that guys are built, BJ's are the ultimate distraction.

He need to stop being rough, but his difficulty in remembering should not be interpreted as not caring about you, just that the lower head is in control at that time.

That is why I suggest the shoulders, he has less leverage so his loss of self-control will not be such a bother to you.

 

dude that's fucked up! I used to have a boyfiend like this, then someone here opened my eyes to how degrading that is. Then I thought about it, and was like" how dare he treat me like that?" Your too good for that, tell him if he needs something to controll, he should get one of those blow-up sex dolls and it can do the job for him.

 

Wow, you seriously need to bite his penis if he does this again. My ex-bf would push my head down too, so I like scrapped my teeth on his dick when he forced my head down. He got pissed off, but I didn't care, because I felt it was really degrading for him to act that way. So, then he stopped. We broke up like a month later though, but it wasn't because of that!

 

lmao, a first for me.