being inconsiderate hurts

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by funkyhippychick, Apr 7, 2005.

  1. funkyhippychick

    funkyhippychick Member

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    Well my boyfriend is friends with my brother and knew him before me...tonite he didnt call me after he got out of work,and my brother said hes hanging out with him....tht hurts man its like he dosent wanna chill with me..i guess i know he loves me but it just makes me feel like shit...
     
  2. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    Tell him how you feel about it. If he reacts badly... give him the flick, you deserve better!
     
  3. UnspokenThings

    UnspokenThings Member

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    sometimes people do things without first putting themselves in the other person's shoes.
     
  4. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    sometimes you just don't want to see someone every single day. everyone needs thier own time to go out and be with friends.
     
  5. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    hmm... perhaps dating your brothers friend isnt the best if you feel that way.

    These things are gonna happen all the time babe. Your man isnt going to stop hanging with your brother because you two are an item.

    Now if hes breaking dates with you, thats wrong, but if you had nothing planned and were just hoping he would call and hang out, you cant really expect him to be available
     
  6. Faerie

    Faerie Peachy

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    Im with Headymoe... You cant expect him to hang out with tou every second of the day... He has friends that he needs to hangout with.... I mean if you only see him once a week okay cause hes always with his friends... okay e upset.. its valid... But if you see him alot you need to let him hang with his friends...
     

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