This Bitch

dont you hate the people that you do something insanely nice for and then when u need the favor returned they dont pay you back? i gave this stupid bitch a half ounce of premium shit out of the goodness of my heart when she was dry, n now that im dry again(can you fucking believe my luck?!) i asked her to send me jsut a couple g's, i told her id even pay for em, and she says no, that she doesnt want to send me weed. i start explaining to her how mailing it is quite safe, and she goes "no its not the mailing, its you never do anything for me." WTF

 

first off, tell her u gave her a half o and you wish u never did and will never do it again, second off, call her a bitch for me.

 

my cozin does that all the time he bitchs at me and tells me to pay him for ambein, soma, perks and shit casue i sell it but i always smoke him up for free hes only payed like once out 100 times. he wouldnt ever be able to get weed if it wasnt for me

 

If you gave her somthing out of the "goodness of your heart" then you shouldn't be expecting anything back....

 

Not making excuses for her , but don't give for the sake of expecting to receive . I think that's a bad habit that leads partially to unhappiness.

 

The reason you give is so someday you can recieve right? I say tell that bitch off and just leave her alone, sadly people will take a gift but once a favor is needed they will always back down.

 

Thats a damned selfish way of thinking...

 

How so? I bet if you gave your friend $140(14 g at 10 bucks per g) worth of bud I bet when you where dry ud expect they could do y a a favor, I would never even smoke weed with someone if they wouldnt smoke thiers with me, its just how people are treated, you cant say you wouldnt do the same thing, cuz I know you wouldnt even give someone that much weed(not blamin ya, neither would I). I dont think its selfish, he should expect her to say yes if he asked her for weed since hes already been good enough to her to give her that much bud.

 

No if I give a gift I don't expect anything in return. If it's a business transaction thats a different story.

 

the girl is obviously a bitch. i mean ive often given bud to people when they dont have any. but if im ever out i always get some in return. does she have alot on her?

 

or maybe there is more to this story...

First off half of an ounce is a hell of a gift to some chick. I mean thats not helping her through a dry spell, thats like supplying her big time for free.

Maybe she dun have any, maybe she wants out of the drug community, so many possibilities befor you label her a bitch.

But the point remains if there is no more to the story, he should not have given a gift in expecting something in return.(Also a reason when I give gifts I don't give 1/2 a good oz, more like a few grams or mursh)

 

totally agreed.... i dont expect something when i give someone something else... its rude.. and a very selfish way of thinking.... where i work.. i give my co-workers free bud or money(if they arent smokers) just to let'em know they're doin a good job... i dont expect them to give me back anything in the future.. its just a nice kind thing to do for appreciation

 

the reason it was so much was cuz i knew shed be dry for a while, and when i gave it to her i winked and said "remember to return the favor if i need it one day."

call me selfish but if i give her enough weed to last her through her dry spell then the least she could do is send me a little to make my weekend a little more fun. It wasnt like a gift but rather a favor, a favor not expected to be returned at the time, but kind of like a "just in case"

 

its a unwriten law if someone does something nice for you, you should repay them example if your firend is homeless and needs a place to stay and some food and you give it to him and then years later you end up homeless and he has a house and food and you ask for a place to stay and a littile to eat and he says too bad im not giving you shit, thats fucking rude and mean


the greeks had the law of hospitlity it was one of the most repected laws it basicly said if someone needs a place to stay or food you give it to them, your home is there home, there is even a story that goes with the idea in where a king couldnt kill this boy because he gave him hospitality and the gods would be extemly angary if he broke it.

she should give you something even if its not a 1/2 oz she could atlest smoke with you a couple time

 

Bull dookie... i never expect anything from anyone when i do something nice for them... its called BEING NICE... you dont expect anything.... you should feel the gratification of you doing a good deed and feel just fine with a thank you.. i guess if anything.... thats all you should expect is a thank you... you expect something more than that for giving someone something you're just an asshole. and shouldnt offer

 

you took it out of contects read the for example

what if you where dry and some one you smoke up all the time has weed and wont smoke you up you wouldnt be mad?

yeah there should be random acts of kindness but why cant she do something nice and smoke him up

 

random act of kindness is a random act of kindness... nothing more.. as i repeat.. you should not expect a gift just because you gave one.... its selfish.. if i smoke someone up... its becuase i want to.... i dont look later in life to have him smoke me up... they just come over and do it.... another random act of kindness... i dont go and say "hey. i smoked you up the other day... time to return the favor" its an asshole move.... Dont just expect something to happen becuase you did something

You cant be let down if you dont expect the world.....

 

well joker, i told her i expected the favor returned if i ever needed it, and time n time again i thinkw e have established that i am in fact an asshole, sooooooooooooooooo there we go!

 

Well, It's entirely possible she thought you were joking about needing the favor returned if you could manage to lay half an ounce on her for free.

And i hope all you people talking about being "repayed" for gifts never have kids, because you obviously don't understand of the meaning of a selfless act and parents who expect things from their kids tend to fuck children up.

 

That's very true. I know a guy who hooks me up here and there sometimes and he always says remember it when he needs a favor, but he never really needs one. If he did, I would help him out all I could, but I really don't take him seriously when he says that.

I agree that you shouldn't expect a favor whenever you call on her in return for what you did. It was really nice that you did that, but you shouldn't do things only to get something back. Maybe she was insulted that you said that when you gave her the weed. I don't know. I would be a little pissed, but I wouldn't call her a bitch.