Kids

lol. yeah, i'm pregnant with my second. i'll be getting tied during the c-section. i wanted 3, but this is just too much fear. i'm on bedrest until i see my new doctor. it's a pain, but i'm happy to be having another.

 

I don't want any, and I don't have any. If my stupid hormones decide to change their stance on that, I'd like to adopt, especially kid taht's a little older (3-6 range).... a little less breakable and terrifying, and less poop etc to clean up after. And they can usually feed themselves, if you put the food infront of them. There are so many kids out there that need great homes, I wouldn't want to bring a new life in when I could help out one that already exists. Plus, I could ask for a girl then (selfish me). If I adopted though, I'd probably only get one kid. I'm an only child and I couldn't imagine dealing with more than one kid, I'd like to be able to focus entirely on taking care of that one, if I ever did decide I wanted a kid.

hell, did that make any sense? Stupid sleep deprived brain.

 

babies are unbreakable...they're made of rubber until they're two!

 

I have two boys and I had my tubes tied during the c-section. The thought of anymore children would put me back in the nutty farm.

We wanted 3 children before we had our first one. I hated being pregnant and then the delivery was horrible. I had no help raising my first baby other than when my husband was home from work. I was scared and needed help. Then I got pregnant again right away. Two babies, no help, no thank you. I was done.

After my first son was born I wanted my husband to go get snipped. He didn't want to even talk about it. He was set on 2 kids. He said he can take one and I can handle the other when we go out and we will be fine. Three kids = 1 floater. So that thought got scratched.

 

I currently do not have any children. Someday when my future husband and I have both finished college (that will be 10 years because he is going to med school after undergrad with 2 years of internship) I would love to have a child. One or two... maybe three. Whatever God gives me.

 

I will beg you to not ask your man to do that. There are SO MANY adverse health effects that can happen, including Lung cancer, Auto-Immune diseases and even blood toxicity. When you get snipped, the excess sperm has nowhere to go and it eventually goes into your bloodstream and poisons your body. I was going to get this operation done, but opted out because of all the health effects. Many men also report constant DAILY pain equal to getting kicked in the groin for up to 20 years after their operation, some men can't return to work because of it. MAKE SURE YOUR MAN DOES HIS HOMEWORK about this "simple procedure" before he even considers going through with it. Just thought I'd warn you.

http://www.ccli.org/contraception/vasectomy.shtml
http://www.dontfixit.org/

 

yea that operation is bullshit !.......i have no kids anywhere.

 

are their adverse reactions like that on females too?

 

the girl one is major surjury and unless they were already in there for sompin else ......they got like ovulation testers mar its just so easy not to get preggis and not nesrcary to poison yersef wit progesterone or stick pins in yer balls .

 

I'm not quite sure. I know women who are 30-65(including my aunt & 2 step-sisters) who have had their tubes tied at age 25-40 and have absolutely no adverse health effects.

 

*shrugs* okay

i prolly would never do it. seven years or protection and one pregnancy. i can handle that until mentapause

 

how about a million masturbators march , collect all the sperm and blast it throuygh hoses at girls in the park like ihe imaculate conception ....get virgins knocked up at 20 ft distance

 

Keep dreaming man. Thats not going to happen.

 

How are you so sure?

 

Don't be a dork. Your first link is from a Christian Fundy site, and I didn't bother reading past the part where they said the only 100% effective method is complete castration of the testicles or complete removal of the ovaries...WTF????? That is insane fundy talk if I ever read it....​

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I did my own search and here is what happens to the sperm....it does not "enter the bloodstream and poison" anybody....WTF do you think you have super-sperm? It dies and goes away, like any other cell....we are constantly reproducing most of the cells in our body....​

http://www.vasectomydoc.com/faq.html#1​

Q. What happens to sperm after a vasectomy?​

A. A vasectomy creates a blockage or “dead end” in the scrotal portion of the vas. The sperm get to the point of blockage and can go no further. They age and then die. The sperm degenerate and the body breaks the sperm down into component protein molecules as it does for dead cells elsewhere in the body. These protein molecules are then reabsorbed in the bloodstream and are eliminated.

 

Furthermore, I didn't "ask my man to do that".........It is HIS IDEA. And how the hell would you get lung cancer from a vasectomy?

 

I have three children. A 5 year old son and 23 month old twins, both a son and a daughter. Two boys, one girl. Good combo I think. I'd love to have more, but, my body might not hold out another time so I have been advised by numerous doctors never to have anymore children. I had severe complications with my twin pregnancy, and I according to my OB, I have an 80% chance of conceiving fraternal twins again, which makes my risk even higher.

Anyway, I love having three children. It's awesome, and I am so, so, so proud of them all. I never imagined the love one can feel for a child until I had them. And with every passing day, I love them even more. I was just on the phone with my best friend the other day who gave birth to her first child and she was telling me that when she looks at her baby, she wants to cry because she just loves him so much and she asked me if I thought that was silly. I told her just wait, that love will grow even stronger as time passes by, and that I still cry with joy when I look at my children, marvelling at how beautiful and precious they are and overwhelmed with the love I feel for them.

Congratulations to you sweetheart! May you have a happy and healthy 9 months! You have been blessed!

Much love.

 

i have one child and i want 2 kids. one boy and one girl. if my next chid is a boy i will keep trying until i have a girl.

 

my father and stepfather, as well as a great number of other men suffer no adverse effects from their vasectomies. i think all that is just another excuse to put off the surgeries on the women. whatever. i'm getting tied because i'm going to be opened up anyway. dave was going to get snipped, but at least he told me he honestly didn't want it done because he was afraid. that's just fine. i'm not. but vasectomies are no more dangerous, and a great deal less dangerous, than the surgeries that wome have to endure for the same outcome..